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    Hi guys..I have a bit of a dilemma about my grad trip. Basically my friends and I wanna go on a grad trip and obviously we want it to be fun. So three of us have a great time together and we all wanna go but this fourth girl is a part of our "friendship group". We dont wanna invite her cuz she's a judgy person who will put everyone else down. The issue is I dont know how to avoid inviting her cuz one of my friends will be upset about not inviting her cuz she isn't affected by her putting us down and she wants to stay "neutral". I can't stand this girl and I CANNOT go on a trip without losing my mind. What should I do I dunno how to not invite her
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    Are you all the same gender? If not, I'm sure bringing a girl on a lad's holiday wouldn't be a problem
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    Are you all the same gender? If not, I'm sure bringing a girl on a lad's holiday wouldn't be a problem
    Hahah yeah we're all girls lolll
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    Hmm, the "fourth girl" who you say is judgmental, I think if you knew that sooner you'd have already begun the process of cutting her out of your life. If you value her in other ways you may as well bear the times she goes mad.
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    Hmm, the "fourth girl" who you say is judgmental, I think if you knew that sooner you'd have already begun the process of cutting her out of your life. If you value her in other ways you may as well bear the times she goes mad.
    The thing is, I go to a different school to the rest cuz I changed schools after my GCSEs. So I've cut her out pretty effectively LMAO. But I'm still really close to the other two. and one of them also can't stand her but the other wants to be neutral. So she'll definitely be upset if we don't invite the fourth girl. I'm just so confused now lol. TBH I don't even think of her as a friend anymore, but my old school was so small that it kind of became a default that she would hang out with us.
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    How about you just hang out with one of your friends on this trip, the other can go separately with the "judgmental girl" and see how it goes so if you're paying for the holiday you're only responsible for yourself and one friend
 
 
 
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