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    Ciel is some next SJW and I agree with Salt Queen from what I've scanned through. Having sex with lots of random people is not right, you should be telling the OP this instead of jumping onto the movement that "you can do anything you want if it makes you happy". For one, you're not considering all the men she's hurting by acting promiscuously, those who yearn for an emotional relationship -- she is depriving them of it. It's also really unhealthy, unhealthy for her well-being and also pathologically unhealthy with the huge risks of STDs & unwanted pregnancies. Not only that, but it scars any reputation she has in society, and naturally people will label her, though she claims that she is 'not ashamed', this issue has clearly had a lasting impression on her because she feels the need to post on here, seeking validation. This sounds like an addition to me, and one we should be condoning. Just because it gives her momentary gratification doesn't make it okay! If someone was addicted to food, you would advise them to stop eating so much or eat healthily, no? Or would you tell them to do whatever makes them happy until they end up with type 2 diabetes.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    No I won't simmer down when some specimen insults me.


    Condoms don't always work


    How do you know it's protected?! Where did she say it was??? Don't be naive, people have unprotected sex all the time! and I wasn't even talking about her anymore, I was talking to that other thing.
    Even if the condom doesn't work and she gets pregnant so what?

    It doesn't affect your life? she can abort it or keep it.
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    (Original post by AlevelsMakeMeSui)
    Even if the condom doesn't work and she gets pregnant so what?

    It doesn't affect your life? she can abort it or keep it.
    What is this "it doesn't affect your life" bull ****? Do you realise we're on an open forum in an open discussion where everryone is welcome to express their minds...? With this "logic" that people should keep their opinions quiet then so should you. I don't want your opinion about my opinion 😐. And I see I've come across another person who's cavalier about important things so you can stop speaking to me now because I won't entertain anything else you say. 👋

    and actually maybe you're a troll or just very confused because just earlier the morning you were attacking an "escort" and repped my post disagreeing with her lifestyle choice. Now you're defending abortion and one night stands? 😐
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    (Original post by Deliciate)
    Ciel is some next SJW and I agree with Salt Queen from what I've scanned through. Having sex with lots of random people is not right, you should be telling the OP this instead of jumping onto the movement that "you can do anything you want if it makes you happy". For one, you're not considering all the men she's hurting by acting promiscuously, those who yearn for an emotional relationship -- she is depriving them of it. It's also really unhealthy, unhealthy for her well-being and also pathologically unhealthy which the huge risks of STDs & unwanted pregnancies. Not only that, but it scars any reputation she has in society, and naturally people will label her, though she claims that she is 'not ashamed', this issue has clearly had a lasting impression on her because she feels the need to post on here, seeking validation. This sounds like an addition to me, and one we should be condoning. Just because it gives her momentary gratification doesn't make it okay! If someone was addicted to food, you would advise them to stop eating so much or eat healthily, no? Or would you tell them to do whatever makes them happy until they end up with type 2 diabetes.
    Since when is enjoying life wrong? For some people, sex is just about pleasure, not about 'emotional connection' blah blah blah. Jesus Christ, dude, she's not hurting anyone. She hooks up with people that are into one night stands. It's their fault if they are emotionally challenged and can't comprehend that sex does not equal love.
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    (Original post by Ciel.)
    It's not invalid just because he suddenly changed his mind lmao.
    But he did not change his mind, he just clarified his point, once again your argument is invalid
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    (Original post by Ciel.)
    Since when is enjoying life wrong? For some people, sex is just about pleasure, not about 'emotional connection' blah blah blah. Jesus Christ, dude, she's not hurting anyone. She hooks up with people that are into one night stands. It's their fault if they are emotionally challenged and can't comprehend that sex does not equal love.
    Funny, you act like it is their life so they can do what they want (within reason) yet you see your viewpoint as objectively correct and that people who want sex to be something special are wrong and "challenged" pretty insulting and silly to say, they are not saying that sex always means love just that sex is something special and should not be given out freely.
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    (Original post by AperfectBalance)
    But he did not change his mind, he just clarified his point, once again your argument is invalid
    What argument? You were the one who quoted me in the first place, saying that you hate slutty people.
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    (Original post by AperfectBalance)
    Funny, you act like it is their life so they can do what they want (within reason) yet you see your viewpoint as objectively correct, they are not saying that sex always means love just that sex is something special and should not be given out freely.
    Nope, actually, they are just mostly insulting the OP, and everyone else that likes casual sex.
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    (Original post by Ciel.)
    What argument? You were the one who quoted me in the first place, saying that you hate slutty people.
    Are you acting silly to try and hide your mistakes, I am talking about the argument that you are having with me about that other guy.
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    (Original post by AperfectBalance)
    Funny, you act like it is their life so they can do what they want (within reason) yet you see your viewpoint as objectively correct and that people who want sex to be something special are wrong and "challenged" pretty insulting and silly to say, they are not saying that sex always means love just that sex is something special and should not be given out freely.
    That's cool for yourself, but trying to push that onto anybody else is just daft. There's a difference between 'I think sex is special and shouldn't be given out freely' and 'you slut, sex is special and shouldn't be given out freely'. That distinction is blurred by some posters in this thread.
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    (Original post by AperfectBalance)
    Are you acting silly to try and hide your mistakes, I am talking about the argument that you are having with me about that other guy.
    Nope, I'm genuiely confused now. No idea what you are trying to say at this point. I said I disagree with his views, and that I find them sexist. My point stil stands. That's all. What's your problem?
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    What is this "it doesn't affect your life" bull ****? Do you realise we're on an open forum in an open discussion where everryone is welcome to express their minds...? With this "logic" that people should keep their opinions quiet then so should you. I don't want your opinion about my opinion 😐. And I see I've come across another person who's cavalier about important things so you can stop speaking to me now because I won't entertain anything else you say. 👋

    and actually maybe you're a troll or just very confused because just earlier the morning you were attacking an "escort" and repped my post disagreeing with her lifestyle choice. Now you're defending abortion and one night stands? 😐
    I repped you because that girl was chatting **** about values.
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    (Original post by AlevelsMakeMeSui)
    I repped you because that girl was chatting **** about values.
    Ok.
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    That's cool for yourself, but trying to push that onto anybody else is just daft. There's a difference between 'I think sex is special and shouldn't be given out freely' and 'you slut, sex is special and shouldn't be given out freely'. That distinction is blurred by some posters in this thread.
    Says the guy who just told me he got drunk because his gf found someone right after you broke up while everyone calls her a hoe, meanwhile I heard nothing from you defending that she's not a hoe.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    Says the guy who just told me he got drunk because his gf found someone right after you broke up while everyone calls her a hoe, meanwhile I heard nothing from you defending that she's not a hoe.
    That's something of a misrepresentation: it wasn't cos she found someone else, it was because I was generally miserable and just got pissed loads, starting the day we finished. Nobody called her anything of the sort so I don't know where you are getting that from. Nor do I have to defend against a situation that did not occur.
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    That's something of a misrepresentation: it wasn't cos she found someone else, it was because I was generally miserable and just got pissed loads, starting the day we finished. Nobody called her anything of the sort so I don't know where you are getting that from. Nor do I have to defend against a situation that did not occur.
    Lol the thread is right there and Nebu said right there that the op's girlfriend who did the same thing as your ex was a hoe. It's right there in page 1! 😂

    Anyway she's not a hoe is my point for finding a new bf outside of your relationship. Yet no one is calling this op horrible names for doing way worse including you. Ok.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    Lol the thread is right there and Nebu said right there that the op's girlfriend who did the same thing as your ex was a hoe. It's right there in page 1! 😂
    Right, so they said something derogatory about somebody else (that I never even read), not involving me or the ex in question - remind me again how that means I have to white knight it? If I'd responded agreeing with them, you'd have a point. As it stands, you don't.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    Lol the thread is right there and Nebu said right there that the op's girlfriend who did the same thing as your ex was a hoe. It's right there in page 1! 😂

    Anyway she's not a hoe is my point for finding a new bf outside of your relationship. Yet no one is calling this op horrible names for doing way worse including you. Ok.
    I agree, so what's your problem? I am not inconsistent on this.
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    Right, so they said something derogatory about somebody else (that I never even read), not involving me or the ex in question - remind me again how that means I have to white knight it? If I'd responded agreeing with them, you'd have a point. As it stands, you don't.
    Oh calm down and read my edit. This shows that you're not thinking things through and just bickering since you responded in literally 5 seconds.
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    Your edit further illustrates that you have no point, only an agenda.
 
 
 
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