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    Okay so im only 13 (female) and i have the biggest crush on a female teacher at my school and i think shes really pretty but my friends do not see it. I think im a bit too obssesive and like to look her up online and stuff. She taught me last year and i acted a bit naughty to get her attention but now i relaise it was wrong. i had a crush on another female teacher and acted the same and she left and now i feel guilty and i dont want to mess it up this time. One of my friends always says shes looking at you when she looks in my direction and i think shes taking the hint and knows.My friends say get over her because shes around 29 or something. But i cant let it go. Shes all i think about. Its not like i aspire to be her, i just really like her, emotionally and physically. Help! How do i get over her...
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    Just honestly try and ignore it, don't be stupid and tell her. She's a fully grown woman, and her own person, reflect on that for a moment. That woman could literally be your mum.
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    (Original post by AmmarTa)
    Just honestly try and ignore it, don't be stupid and tell her. She's a fully grown woman, and her own person, reflect on that for a moment. That woman could literally be your mum.
    That acctually made me think for a minute. Thanks for advice.
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    How do i get over her...
    Ask her if she would like to play leapfrog.

    At your age, that is what you should be doing.

    Crushes on teachers is never a thing one should ever act upon. It can destroy lives.
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    oh no
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    Tbh I think this is something you will be able to get over naturally. Realistically, she's a 29 year old woman with her own life and career and you're just a kid who's part of her job- it's not going to go anywhere and if it did she would literally be a criminal.
    You can have a crush on her from afar and that's fine- there are probably quite a few people who do like their teachers in this way. But think of it more as a daydream rather than reality, as it can never go anywhere. Also try your best not to do any kind of 'flirting' or whatever in class.
    This should help you get over her, at least with time.
 
 
 
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