Hi, thought id make a post as honestly this is getting me really down.
I moved to uni 2 months next week and i dont have a single friend here. Not even just an acquaintance in classes either.
I dont live in shared student accomodation due to having a pet so I rent my own place.
Im in my first year at the moment, but joined uni laate, im 21.
I am very shy and only had a hand full of friends at school, then had two people id hang out with at college but never outside of college, which never really bothered me at the time.
Now im not someone who goes out partying, so late pubs and clubs are a big no as they usually end with me breaking down and having an anxiety attack.
But I do like people coming round and having a quiet drink and maybe play mario kart.
I have tried to force myself to be sociable here, tried talking to people in classes and ive joined clubs and societys, but ive tried talkimg to people a lot, and it feels like no one cares and im invisible a lot.
I managed to get 3 people over after society one night to play mario kart, which was fun but every time ive asked people if fancied coming over all I get is "nah" or 'seen' on messenger.
I asked the society group if they wanted to come along to two events, one last montj and one yesterday.
With the first event the majority said no which is understandable and a few said yes. But on the day of the event, no one showed and got ignored on the chat when I asked where people were.
Same again happened today.
It seems like if people already have their own friend groups they dont want to talk to others.
Can anyone suggest anything i can do? As honestly I dont want to be alone for 4 years away from home