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    I just got out of a relationship with my first love. It had been so toxic and he ended up cheating on me even though I kept fighting and he did but he was cheating whilst 'fighting for the relationship too' I started talking to this guy and I not in any way just a friend. I want to be single but I like the banter we have. What should I do if he asks to meet? I don't want to start anything as I'm still hurting over my relationship and I'm scared to invest feelings and my love again. Will it be rebounding or will I actually like the guy? Should I set back and stop talking to him and do me. Or carry on talking to him it's a friendship level but I can see it going to more. I'm 21 btw.
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    I cry everyday whether it be just a couple tears or break down about my relationship with my ex. It's still raw and I'm still hurting with it being my first love.
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    just be straight with him and tell him your not looking for a relationship, don't bring it up randomly tho

    EDIT: Also say you still like talking to him (if you do)
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    You should mention that you're still not over your ex. Keep things casual and don't just date him for the sake of filling that void.
 
 
 
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