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    GF of 2 years really struggles to initiate sex. But, if I try then it kicks off. She just seems to struggle to want to initiate the act lol which completely sucks.

    We suspect it could be that she is 18 and on the pill which could be doing it. Tbh, I do remember when she wasn't on the pill and it was better.

    Any other advice than sort out the pill perhaps?
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    This honestly sounds so much like me and my boyfriend. I have a low sex drive and I'm on the pill. I never really get in the mood on my own, I only do if he talks about it or starts making things happen. I went on the pill due to severe cramps, so I am not willing to come off it. It's not such a big issue, because if he really wants some action, I'll give in and end up enjoying it myself too.

    It doesn't seem like such a big deal though because you're getting good sex, right? You're both enjoying it, right? Does it bother you to always initiate it?
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    This honestly sounds so much like me and my boyfriend. I have a low sex drive and I'm on the pill. I never really get in the mood on my own, I only do if he talks about it or starts making things happen. I went on the pill due to severe cramps, so I am not willing to come off it. It's not such a big issue, because if he really wants some action, I'll give in and end up enjoying it myself too.

    It doesn't seem like such a big deal though because you're getting good sex, right? You're both enjoying it, right? Does it bother you to always initiate it?
    Massively late reply... Ye it bothers me, she is trying but it is a bit eh.
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    Massively late reply... Ye it bothers me, she is trying but it is a bit eh.
    At least she's trying.
 
 
 
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