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    I was talking anonymously to some guy online ( naughty stuff) I sent him a photo of my face(not explicit), because he wanted to check I was a girl. He knows I'm northern, but that's it. I freaked out, told him the pic was of a friend then blocked him. Could he use it against me ?? (IE; post it online with screenshots of our messages so my friend and fam can find it????) I'm regretting it so much someone please give me advice my heart is beating out of my chest.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking anonymously to some guy online ( naughty stuff) I sent him a photo of my face(not explicit), because he wanted to check I was a girl. He knows I'm northern, but that's it. I freaked out, told him the pic was of a friend then blocked him. Could he use it against me ?? (IE; post it online with screenshots of our messages so my friend and fam can find it????) I'm regretting it so much someone please give me advice my heart is beating out of my chest.
    learn from this and don't do it again. now that he has the pic it's up to him to do what he wants with it.

    Let's hope he doesn't do anything malicious
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    learn from this and don't do it again. now that he has the pic it's up to him to do what he wants with it.

    Let's hope he doesn't do anything malicious
    I'm literally crying so much
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking anonymously to some guy online ( naughty stuff) I sent him a photo of my face(not explicit), because he wanted to check I was a girl. He knows I'm northern, but that's it. I freaked out, told him the pic was of a friend then blocked him. Could he use it against me ?? (IE; post it online with screenshots of our messages so my friend and fam can find it????) I'm regretting it so much someone please give me advice my heart is beating out of my chest.
    ur really ****ing stupid

    first off, no he cant haha, i wish he could tho

    ugh, so basically, if he had ur social media prof or the person's face u sent (why the **** u did that i dont know) or your personal details (address), then ur okie dokie

    even if he does, get ur dad to beat the paedo up

    now stop watching this thread, he cant do anything, no 90 year old man gonna tickle ur fanny or ur friends or blackmail ur mom so go drink water and eat sausage good girl then go to bed (he wont be there, neither will his face be pressed against the window)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    learn from this and don't do it again. now that he has the pic it's up to him to do what he wants with it.

    Let's hope he doesn't do anything malicious
    this is probs a troll lol
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    tbh the situation doesn't sound too sketchy so he probably won't use it against you, like it seems more like you were the one to realise omg what have i just done rather than him saying anything weird. so maybe just be more careful in the future, but i'd say you're okay this time!
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    ur really ****ing stupid

    first off, no he cant haha, i wish he could tho

    ugh, so basically, if he had ur social media prof or the person's face u sent (why the **** u did that i dont know) or your personal details (address), then ur okie dokie

    even if he does, get ur dad to beat the paedo up

    now stop watching this thread, he cant do anything, no 90 year old man gonna tickle ur fanny or ur friends or blackmail ur mom so go drink water and eat sausage good girl then go to bed (he wont be there, neither will his face be pressed against the window)
    Thank-you, I feel so stupid
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thank-you, I feel so stupid
    you are probably 13, so dont, but if u arent, ur ****ing stupid
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    (Original post by tescoterry)
    you are probably 13, so dont, but if u arent, ur ****ing stupid
    Really thank-you so much
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    Does he know your name , if not then you don't have much to worry about , unless he's some master hacker
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    Does he know your name , if not then you don't have much to worry about , unless he's some master hacker
    No he doesn't. I just also realized that if they ever did make their way to ppl I know, I could just say it was fake
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    (Original post by tescoterry)
    you are probably 13, so dont, but if u arent, ur ****ing stupid
    Calm down, geez
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking anonymously to some guy online ( naughty stuff) I sent him a photo of my face(not explicit), because he wanted to check I was a girl. He knows I'm northern, but that's it. I freaked out, told him the pic was of a friend then blocked him. Could he use it against me ?? (IE; post it online with screenshots of our messages so my friend and fam can find it????) I'm regretting it so much someone please give me advice my heart is beating out of my chest.
    Don't worry, it's completely fine. ANYONE could have used your photo, e.g. from your FB or Insta. Worst case scenario can always say that it wasn't you and someone must have stolen your pics. *shrugs*
    But he's not going to post the screenshots, why would he? That would be stupid. Forget about it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No he doesn't. I just also realized that if they ever did make their way to ppl I know, I could just say it was fake
    oh well then that's fine , chances are there's atleast 1 other girl that looks similar to you so you have nothing to worry about . If something does come up though just say you were hacked XD . But be careful who you talk to and what u share on social media again .

    I mean if you're young then you'll learn from this , personally i never talked to people i don't know , mainly because i was one of those kids who actually payed attention in E-safety assembly .
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    Not sure if you revealed your actual(true) identity, location, age, etc. (first of all, if you are underage, then that raises legal issues of a different kind, potentially, although you said the photo is not explicit.) The fact is, he (and anyone he shares your photo with) now has the photo to do whatever he wants with it, so he can definitely post it, your messages, etc. And obviously, if he has accurate info about your true location, and other things-he (and/or others) can make it very specific so that your friends, family, and total strangers can read your texts and see your photo.

    HOWEVER, I want to say to you, although it is reasonable you are freaking out, and though made some mistakes-you are going to have to steel your mind and work to get through this, don't let this mistake of interacting with the wrong person define your life. This is just one moment in time, a learning lesson for future reference. I suggest you consider getting ahead of this and telling the people you most fear would find out about this...get ahead of it-I realize my suggestion is a painful one, but by embracing the worst fears you have, and deciding the terms of how the people you fear the most -you define how this comes out-you control and take back control of our life. The ones you fear will be angry-well, there may be some of that initially-but REMEMBER true friends and family love you and care about you...everyone makes mistakes, and this hopefully will be a learning lesson for you(most of what is done in the dark, comes to light)-you are NOT the first young person to make a mistake like this, and unfortunately, you will NOT be the last, the important thing now is to live and go forward NOT allowing this event to define you-view it as a point-along a journey that we hope will be blessed to be long and full of joy. Two years, three years, five years, ten years from now, this will be nothing, so don't let this thing which is really-in the larger scheme of your life-nothing-don't let it become a "god" over your life and cause you problems.

    I sincerely hope things turn out well for you.


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking anonymously to some guy online ( naughty stuff) I sent him a photo of my face(not explicit), because he wanted to check I was a girl. He knows I'm northern, but that's it. I freaked out, told him the pic was of a friend then blocked him. Could he use it against me ?? (IE; post it online with screenshots of our messages so my friend and fam can find it????) I'm regretting it so much someone please give me advice my heart is beating out of my chest.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking anonymously to some guy online ( naughty stuff) I sent him a photo of my face(not explicit), because he wanted to check I was a girl. He knows I'm northern, but that's it. I freaked out, told him the pic was of a friend then blocked him. Could he use it against me ?? (IE; post it online with screenshots of our messages so my friend and fam can find it????) I'm regretting it so much someone please give me advice my heart is beating out of my chest.
    I wouldn't worry about it because he's unlikely to want to do that, I would say. Unless you've wronged him, he doesn't have a reason to. He might be frustrated you blocked him but it's not a real reason for so called 'revenge porn'. And having said that, he couldn't realistically make convincing revenge porn from just a photo of your face and messages. It could just as well be that he found a picture of your face from your Facebook and put it together with some conversation he constructed himself. So it's not damning info he's got on you. The internet is a huge place, no that's an understatement, the internet is currently a gaping blackhole where all our information is just flit floating around, and there's a lot more filth on it than a couple of dirty messages.

    It's also unlikely he'd know your family to be able to contact them / make the effort to do so, unless he was an obsessed pyscho - which is once again highly unlikely. Just keep him blocked on everything, and keep an extremely low profile from now on. Let it be a lesson to be EXTREMELY careful in future.
 
 
 
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