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    To cut a really long story short, the guy I love cheated on me. it has been 3 months and we r still friends but he wants me back.
    I want him back.
    my friends tell me not to because there is a big age gap between us and he wants to have sex and I'm not ready and they say he is only using me for sexual things and he will just cheat on me again.
    what do you guys think?
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    (Original post by mjcbfmd13)
    To cut a really long story short, the guy I love cheated on me. it has been 3 months and we r still friends but he wants me back.
    I want him back.
    my friends tell me not to because there is a big age gap between us and he wants to have sex and I'm not ready and they say he is only using me for sexual things and he will just cheat on me again.
    what do you guys think?
    Your friends are right. If he’s cheated on you already what’s to stop him from cheating on you again? He’s just using you for sex, that’s all. Move on from him.
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    If you want to get back with him you should talk and let him now that you are not ready for sex and if he's not OK with it he's not worth your time.
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    If he really wants to get back with you, he has to prove himself and do it on your terms.

    However, I agree with your friends. They are right in pointing out the big age gap and worry you will get hurt again. He cheated on you before, can you trust him not to do it again?
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    You two need to have a long conversation about what you both want out of a possible new relationship.
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    (Original post by Mar.Esbry)
    If you want to get back with him you should talk and let him now that you are not ready for sex and if he's not OK with it he's not worth your time.
    when I say I'm not ready he says things like
    "there's nothing to be scared of"
    "ill make sure you feel comfortable"
    then when I say I don't want to he gets really funny with me
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    Yep, former GF did the same to me, et did and move on
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    (Original post by Kevin Hodge)
    Your friends are right. If he’s cheated on you already what’s to stop him from cheating on you again? He’s just using you for sex, that’s all. Move on from him.
    The thing is he has been here for me though everything.
    My anxiety
    my depression
    my bulimia
    i can't loose him
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    (Original post by cheesecakelove)
    If he really wants to get back with you, he has to prove himself and do it on your terms.

    However, I agree with your friends. They are right in pointing out the big age gap and worry you will get hurt again. He cheated on you before, can you trust him not to do it again?
    I'm 14 and he's 17. is that bad?
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    (Original post by mjcbfmd13)
    The thing is he has been here for me though everything.
    My anxiety
    my depression
    my bulimia
    i can't loose him
    You guys could still be friends. If he really loved you then he wouldn’t have cheated on you, right? I think you two need to sit down and have a conversation with each other and come to a conclusion. I’m only giving you my opinion, at the end of the day it’s up to the both of you to make the final decision.
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    (Original post by mjcbfmd13)
    I'm 14 and he's 17. is that bad?
    If you are talking about a sexual relationship, that is bad.
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    (Original post by mjcbfmd13)
    I'm 14 and he's 17. is that bad?
    Yes.
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    (Original post by mjcbfmd13)
    I'm 14 and he's 17. is that bad?
    You're 14! He's 17! If this isn't a troll: he could get himself into some serious trouble.

    Why don't you go concentrate on bigger things, like your studies.
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    (Original post by mjcbfmd13)
    I'm 14 and he's 17. is that bad?
    Yesssss deffoooo!!! At that age all guys think about is sex! I'm telling you now it won't last. When ur 14 u shouldn't really be in a relationship but if u are then it really shouldn't be escalating to sex!?!? Even if it's protected that's just a big nono. Just leave him and get on with your life. Trust me you may think you love him but it's just short term emotions . You'll get over him.
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