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    hi. the guy i'm kinda talking to (like in a romantic way) only compliments me on my personality and how kind and sweet i am etc.

    i know that it's good and he doesn't just like me for superficial things but i am insecure and it just makes me feel like a potato.

    please help?
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    Is it "official" that you're both talking in this romantic way? I'd say that he doesn't want to come off as too full on if he started to compliment your looks and then it might push you away.
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    (Original post by cielle)
    hi. the guy i'm kinda talking to (like in a romantic way) only compliments me on my personality and how kind and sweet i am etc.

    i know that it's good and he doesn't just like me for superficial things but i am insecure and it just makes me feel like a potato.

    please help?
    If a guy usually doesn’t comment on appearance, then maybe he’s shy too? He doesn’t want to tell you you’re pretty as he doesn’t know what you’ll say or how you’ll respond
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    (Original post by rafiali99)
    Is it "official" that you're both talking in this romantic way? I'd say that he doesn't want to come off as too full on if he started to compliment your looks and then it might push you away.
    i'd say so. we both said we liked each other
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    No it doesn't mean that.
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    (Original post by cielle)
    hi. the guy i'm kinda talking to (like in a romantic way) only compliments me on my personality and how kind and sweet i am etc.

    i know that it's good and he doesn't just like me for superficial things but i am insecure and it just makes me feel like a potato.

    please help?
    of course no.. it could just mean he is shy and worried if he compliments you about your body he would disrespect you in someway and the fact that society says that most girls like to be complimented about personality rather than body dose not help
 
 
 
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