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Girls stare at me in public but girls don't approach me in clubs? watch

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    Why is this? I consider myself very attractive and I put time in my appearance so girls and guys give me attention in public by staring at me but when I'm in clubs, girls don't approach me.

    My experience of clubs is that girls do 0 approaching unless they're intensely drunk or a lesbian, regardless of how much attention you'd get in your sober life.

    Most girls(I'm assuming you are a guy) get pretty intimidated by attractive guys.(Or at least most girls I know) Especially very attractive guys. It also doesn't help that society has always been about guys approaching girls, which isn't always gonna happen. Also, it depends alot on your whole body language, are you smiling? Are you chatting with other people? Do you have an open or closed posture? Are you looking at anyone or anywhere in particular? Are you out on the floor socializing with people are you just sitting around?It helps if you create a sociable and approachable atmosphere for yourself.But if you think you are doing everything right, maybe you should just go off and socialize with girls and maybe take the initiative to talk with them. If aren t already doing that.If you are doing everything right. I don't have any better advice to give.
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