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    But i dont know how to take it to the next step, help plz .

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    How well do you know each other? Is the next step for you contacting her? Asking her out? Have you been out a few times and now you'd like to take things further? More info please.
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    How well do you know each other? Is the next step for you contacting her? Asking her out? Have you been out a few times and now you'd like to take things further? More info please.
    I want to make my intentions clear, I have only just gotten to know her and we have a date.
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    So, if you haven't gone on a date yet you need to take things slow. Go on your date and try your best to just relax and be yourself.....but that should be the light-hearted you. Get to know her. Ask questions about her interests and ask follow up questions. Share about your interests as well. Best to ask her about herself and ask follow up questions and hopefully she'll ask you questions in return. Keep the first 1-4 dates light and casual. There is no need to declare yourself (make you intensions known) right off the bat. Go slowly and let things build. She should feel like you're the guy who treats her well and thinks about her as a person and not the guy who shares everything from the beginning.....now let's have sex. Does this make sense? I know it sounds old fashioned but it is very sensual to go slow with this stuff. If your first date goes well and you feel like kissing her towards the end of the date then when you have a private minute lean in and kiss her. If that goes well....kiss her again. The next date you got the 'should I kiss her' part behind you. Hold her hand and lead her through a crowd, 'guide' her through the door by letting her go in first and you put your hank on her hip etc. on the second and subsequent dates. That kind of lets her know you're partnering with her. With each date you can be more relaxed then that can lead to private time which will lend itself to a more romantic moment. Just try not to over think it.

    But, in my opinion, just because you like each other if you jump in with both feet emotionally and tell her how much you like her and you want her to be your girlfriend you are going to potentially scare her off.

    Best of luck to you!
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