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    There's this girl I used to talk to, she used to text me all the time e.g. every morning/day and we talked for ages on end. (Im 17 now shes 19)

    Months later when i had my heart surgery, she was literally the only person that talked to me outside of my family and she was so supportive and nice, she texted me before my surgery and every morning after it asking me how i was doing etc etc and she cheered me up so much and i miss her so much.

    Idk really, we havent spoke in over two years and i'm sitting in bed at nearly 3 in the morning with flashbacks to my surgery and hospital stay (noises from machines, darkness and also my valve ticking...im prob just depressed (i havent been with a relationship since my surgery in april 2015 due to confidence issues and depression..

    We just faded and stopped talking after my surgery and i feel into a deep depression and i didnt want to talk to anyone..

    I just want to click that 'add friend' button on facebook but i think its too late and it would be awkward.

    Suggestions?
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    Just do it. If there was no big fall out, what do you have to lose?
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    i don't think it is too late. meeting people who truly care for us (especially during tough times) is not something that happens everyday. be sure to cherish those people and try to give back when you can as well. she may still care for you. she may even have been waiting for you to reach out to her...it would be a tragedy to possibly miss out on something special due to pride or fear....
 
 
 
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