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My first kiss-did I do something wrong? watch

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    Yesterday I had my first kiss with one of my close friends whom I've always really liked. In the moment I wasn't really thinking, I was about to leave and it was as if he was testing me to see fin id kiss him or not... I don't know. I don't think he enjoyed it, I don't even think I enjoyed it. I feel I did it wrong as I've had no experience what so ever and now I'm paranoid and scared of the outcome, as I said we are close friends and I have no idea how to act now I feel so embarrassed and haven't been able to sleep all night. After I had kissed him he replied with "I wasn't expecting that" we then nervously laughed and he walked me out as I was away home. It now feels very awkward as we haven't really spoken about it and I don't know how to handle it...
    • Very Important Poster

    Very Important Poster
    Who initiated it? If it was you, then he probably wasn't expecting it and didn't feel the same way about you.

    If he initiated it, then he probably felt guilty afterwards. It's hard to say, I don't think you can actually go wrong with a kiss since it's just a kiss, not full on making out.
    • Community Assistant

    Community Assistant
    As long as you didn't awkwardly scrape teeth or accidentally bite one another, then the kiss itself was fine. It's just your reactions to it making it awkward. Does he like you in the same way that you like him? You probably just have to bring it up, which will be awkward. "So, about that kiss the other day..." and then tell each other how you feel and what you hope will happen.
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