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    So..I was drunk at one party with my very good friend. And we end up together..I mean, we kissed all night. And that wasn't the first time, but on the next day, he said he don't remember anything. And I was totally okay with that. Cuz,I really don't love him or anything.
    But there was some videos that he saw and few days later he started to contact me about the night. He said he wish that he can remember it but I said I want to fotger about the night. And from that text he started to ignore me.
    I know, You're not him. But do u think he may like me more than friend? Or does he hate me now for that. We spend a lot of time together, almost everyday. I like him a lot.
    I don't wanna lost him, But I don't think we can be more than friends. I also can't be in any relationship for so long. So I don't wanna hurt him.

    And sorry for my english btw.
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    I think he wants a relationship with you that's more than platonic - the reason he ignored you after you told him you wanted to forget about that night is most likely because he took that as a rejection. I think the best thing is to talk to him about it; tell him to be honedt with you, and you also be honest with him, and that way you'll be able to maintain this relationship.
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    (Original post by lovetospooge)
    So..I was drunk on one party with my very good friend. And we end up together..I mean, we kissed all night. And that wasn't the first time, but on the next day, he said he don't remember anything. And I was totally okay with that. Cuz,I really don't love him or anything.
    But there was some videos that he saw and few days later he started to contact me about the night. He said he wish that he can remember it but I said I want to fotger about the night. And from that text he started to ignore me.
    I know, You're not him. But do u think he may like me more than friend? Or does he hate me now for that. We spend a lot of time together, almost everyday. I like him a lot.
    I don't wanna lost him, But I don't think we can be more than friends. I also can't be in any relationship for so long. So I don't wanna hurt him.

    And sorry for my english btw.
    You basically have him on the "bench" and use him whenever you feel like. You clearly wrote that was not the first time you both have fooled around.

    To me, you may be stringing him along and it is worse than the friendzone. He probably likes you and wants a relationship with you, then you reject him.

    My advice is to have a deep thought about what you want and not mess with his head. Any girl who kisses a guy throughout the night has shone signs of wanting the guy.

    If you dont want him as a boyfriend, then let him go and stop treating him like a "sexless boyfriend."
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    (Original post by Wired_1800)
    You basically have him on the "bench" and use him whenever you feel like. You clearly wrote that was not the first time you both have fooled around.

    To me, you may be stringing him along and it is worse than the friendzone. He probably likes you and wants a relationship with you, then you reject him.

    My advice is to have a deep thought about what you want and not mess with his head. Any girl who kisses a guy throughout the night has shone signs of wanting the guy.

    If you dont want him as a boyfriend, then let him go and stop treating him like a "sexless boyfriend."

    Idk. Because the first time we kissed he had girlfriend and he was the first one who said ,,let's be just friends." So that's why I really didn't expect that he would be ignoring me.
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    I think he wants a relationship with you that's more than platonic - the reason he ignored you after you told him you wanted to forget about that night is most likely because he took that as a rejection. I think the best thing is to talk to him about it; tell him to be honedt with you, and you also be honest with him, and that way you'll be able to maintain this relationship.

    Yea, who knows. :/

    I'll try to talk with him in school, or after school. Because he really don't reply on my texts or calls.

    I called him out yesterday but he was just ,,meh, no, thanks."
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    (Original post by lovetospooge)
    Idk. Because the first time we kissed he had girlfriend and he was the first one who said ,,let's be just friends." So that's why I really didn't expect that he would be ignoring me.
    Ah ok. Then it is his issue.


    (Original post by lovetospooge)
    Yea, who knows. :/

    I'll try to talk with him in school, or after school. Because he really don't reply on my texts or calls.

    I called him out yesterday but he was just ,,meh, no, thanks."
    Yes, speak with him to get it sorted. All the best
 
 
 
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