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Is it too late to find myself a virgin?

(Mods don't de-anon pls, private beliefs!)

I don't really want to have a debate about whether I'm wrong or right with my view but I'm single 22 year old virgin and I've always believed that I want to be with another virgin. All my previous bfs have been virgins but for different reasons nothing ended up happening, and now I'm scared that it might be too late and I'll have to settle for second best (imo). Are there any decent chances of anyone I find now being still a virgin? And if so, will that be because he's unattractive or something like that? Basically are there many guys out there who are successful and single AND virgins?

Reply 1

avalanche

I don't see why not there must be some virgins out there to suit you, though I don't see why being successful has anything to do with it there are all types of virgins out there.

Reply 2

wingerrr

Im 19 single, attractive, virginic, succesful and not gay. Something doesnt quite match up here.

Reply 3

Do Chickens Fly

Anonymous

Basically are there many guys out there who are successful and single AND virgins?

No! There aren't many. I'm not even sure there are any!

There are many who will tell you they're a virgin, if that's what you're looking for. Most smart men don't disclose their relationship history until they understand what type of person they're dealing with.

Reply 4

Nix!

What do you want a virgin for? They're all limp and messy and stuff...

I think you need to ask yourself -- does this really matter that much to you?

Reply 5

Jake22

I don't think that there are many twenty two year old males who are virgins but there are some out there. I know at least one guy who is about twenty-three/twenty-four and is still a virgin and he's a fairly good looking guy too; just doesn't have much confidence.

Reply 6

Zoecb

Look for hardcore Christians? Plenty of those are virgins.
Obviously, you'll have to marry them first...

Reply 7

Profesh

Become a ~~prostitute~~ proselyte.

Reply 8

Helenia

There are probably a few, especially if you're at uni and know where to look. I've gotta say though, by 22 most guys won't be unless they have a reason not to be. I know a few who I'd consider good-ish looking and nice who didn't lose it till later, but only a few.

Reply 9

Hearing Voices

My boyfriend and me were both virgins before we were together, and we got together when he was 18 :smile:

He's good looking, smart and really nice :smile:

He'd had sex offered to him on a plate loads, but never did anything with anyone else.

I'm pretty sure he would have waited for as long as it took to find someone right for him, rather than just doing it so it was done :smile:

So basically, to cut this short, some men would rather wait and there will be some 22 year old virgins :smile:

Reply 10

fredmcbob

You could join that Silver Ring Thing group where they remain sexually abstinent until marriage. You may have to wait some time but its guaranteed a winner.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Silver_Ring_Thing

Reply 11

Nonconformist

There are plenty of virgins out there but some of them ore OK with it and dont feel bad about it, while the other posts topics in this area as Anonymous. I feel ok about beeing a virgin only that I should socialize more often. I feel wonderful to play guitar with a group of people but would only occasionally go in a club (or a 'noisy' place)
I believe in speaking and thinking positive.

Reply 12

fly4fun

Anonymous

Basically are there many guys out there who are successful and single AND virgins?

yeah...hes sitting right here...?!

Reply 13

Profesh

Toy Soldier

Yes, they'll all be socially retarded or Christian. Both being equally contemptible. Your only chance to find a decent looking 22 year old (or older) virgin is to find a social reject and bring him out of his shell so that he's of some use, or find a Christian and deprogram him. Incidentally, I helped a friend of mine deprogram a christian quite recently because she wanted to jump his bones but he was all "no sex before marriage, no drinking, no nothing" hardcore christian. He's a boozy, shagging mess now. Lawl.

Or ginger.

Reply 14

Morbo

Having "virgin" as a requirement for your relationship just puts a massive obstacle in the road for you. Find a guy you like, trust and could be happy with. Once that's sorted, then whether he's a virgin or not will be irrelevant.

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