My sister and her boyfriend and driving me crazy!

Anonymous

I just confronted her about today's noise session and she said ''shut the %%%%%%%%%%%% up or I'll punch you in the face!'' along with numerous other insults!

Punch her in the face first. And next time she locks the door kick it down. And I'm not joking, I would do that. Or you could take the door off. Tell her she can get it back when she grows up. And tell him to **** off or you'll report him to the police. And I'm serious about all this. Are you a guy or a girl and how old are you.

And again, I'm serious about all of this!!!

If she wants to play violent, scary, crazy bitch, show her you're crazier, scarier, stronger and more violent than her worst nightmares!!!

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Profesh

20

She's fifteen. How can your parents be so bloody useless?

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Segat1

16

I'd say her behaviour is a direct result of your parents being soft. /amatuer psychology

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Crazster

16

matt@internet

Punch her in the face first. And next time she locks the door kick it down. And I'm not joking, I would do that. Or you could take the door off. Tell her she can get it back when she grows up. And tell him to **** off or you'll report him to the police. And I'm serious about all this. Are you a guy or a girl and how old are you.

And again, I'm serious about all of this!!!

If she wants to play violent, scary, crazy bitch, show her you're crazier, scarier, stronger and more violent than her worst nightmares!!!

Strongly don't recommend this.
You don't want to sink to her level, and you don't know how crazy she really is.. Don't put yourself in risk of physical harm you don't have to. It will likely escalate, but the less the better.

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Anonymous

I think calling the police may be a bit extreme as he may get jailed or something lol.

I'm sorry, I know it's a difficult situation, but you're a ****ing idiot. He deserves to be jailed you ****ing idiot.

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gateshipone

10

your parents, or you, should change the locks on the front door when she's out. Leave her sitting out in the cold until she realises how stupid she is. When you do let her in, don't give her a key and lock the door so she can't get out or let anyone in.

Also, take away the door to her room. Literally take it off and put it in the shed or something. If she wants that kind of privacy she needs to deserve it.

Oh...and tell your parents to grow some balls!

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OP

matt@internet

Punch her in the face first. And next time she locks the door kick it down. And I'm not joking, I would do that. Or you could take the door off. Tell her she can get it back when she grows up. And tell him to **** off or you'll report him to the police. And I'm serious about all this. Are you a guy or a girl and how old are you.

And again, I'm serious about all of this!!!

If she wants to play violent, scary, crazy bitch, show her you're crazier, scarier, stronger and more violent than her worst nightmares!!!

Lol what you said made me laugh but I don't think I'll be doing that! I'm a really shy soft natured person and well she isn't! I'm 18 and female by the way.

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My sister's 15, I swear if she was anything like this, me mam would ****ing slap her and tell her to get the **** out of the house. And if she didn't, I would.

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OP

Segat1

I'd say her behaviour is a direct result of your parents being soft. /amatuer psychology

Yeah I know but howcome I haven't grown up like her?? My mum has to deal with all the problems whilst my dad just sits there and picks his nose, he's crap.

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OP

matt@internet

My sister's 15, I swear if she was anything like this, me mam would ****ing slap her and tell her to get the **** out of the house. And if she didn't, I would.

I locked her out the house once when she brought all her chav mates back here whilst my parents were out. Of course when she got in she waved a knife in my face and poured a huge bottle of coke over my head and insulted me so.

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Anonymous

Lol what you said made me laugh but I don't think I'll be doing that! I'm a really shy soft natured person and well she isn't! I'm 18 and female by the way.

I'm a shy person too and I hate, hate, hate confrontation. I'd still do exactly what I said. I know many people disagree with this, but I'm one of those people who thinks fight fire with fire. And show you're bigger, older, wiser, smarter and more dominant than her, and pissing you off is like walking up to a dragon and poking it in the eye.

And no, before anyone thinks I'm like this on a day-to-day basis I'm not, only when someone with no authority over me oversteps themselves and somehow thinks they can tell me what to do. I'm not like this to family members/friends/lecturers etc.

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Anonymous

I locked her out the house once when she brought all her chav mates back here whilst my parents were out. Of course when she got in she waved a knife in my face and poured a huge bottle of coke over my head and insulted me so.

The you get a ****ing knife out on her!

And I've no doubt I'm going to get flamed for this, but I'm sorry, that's just my personal opinion. I full respect other peoples opinions, but this is mine.

Reply 32

Profesh

20

Look, if you aren't going to confront her, and your parents aren't going to confront her, and you're too contemptibly passive-submissive to solicit outside intervention, then there really isn't any further advice we can give you except 'move out'.

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blackfish

7

i may get neg repped for this but if your sister starts gobbing of at you, without violence of course, i think you would be quite within your rights to completely and utterly go off on one and lose your temper :wink:

!!!!

Let her know shes not the boss, you are doing an important course and she needs to know that she ain't top dog anymore, dont let her walk all over you and treat you like **** Its not fair on you and not fair on your parents!

if you do decide to lose the plot with her, make sure you bring up every bit no matter how small of the problem and make sure she gets the message!

hope it works out, and you have my sympathy too!!

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Rokit

16

Profesh

She's fifteen. How can your parents be so bloody useless?

Okay

Profesh said exactly what I was thinking

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Helenia

20

Anonymous

Lol what you said made me laugh but I don't think I'll be doing that! I'm a really shy soft natured person and well she isn't! I'm 18 and female by the way.

You need to stand up to her. Not necessarily by shouting and threatening violence, but by not running away every time she turns on you.

Your parents also need to stop being afraid of her. Actually take some action, say something to this wastrel of a guy and your sister. Child/behavioural psychiatry might not be a bad idea...

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blackfish

i may get neg repped for this but if your sister starts gobbing of at you, without violence of course, i think you would be quite within your rights to completely and utterly go off on one and lose your temper :wink:

!!!!

Let her know shes not the boss, you are doing an important course and she needs to know that she ain't top dog anymore, dont let her walk all over you and treat you like **** Its not fair on you and not fair on your parents!

if you do decide to lose the plot with her, make sure you bring up every bit no matter how small of the problem and make sure she gets the message!

hope it works out, and you have my sympathy too!!

Thank you!! See OP, I'm not the only one who thinks like this.

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fredmcbob

matt@internet

I'm a shy person too and I hate, hate, hate confrontation. I'd still do exactly what I said. I know many people disagree with this, but I'm one of those people who thinks fight fire with fire. And show you're bigger, older, wiser, smarter and more dominant than her, and pissing you off is like walking up to a dragon and poking it in the eye.

And no, before anyone thinks I'm like this on a day-to-day basis I'm not, only when someone with no authority over me oversteps themselves and somehow thinks they can tell me what to do. I'm not like this to family members/friends/lecturers etc.

Just so you know I am very sympathetic for you.
Although not so extreme i do almost agree with this person. You are the older one by a good couple of years and it is also your home. It seems you have to assert your dominance over her otherwise she will continue to go about as if she owns the place. If not for your own good for hers as well because to me it sounds as if she's on a downwards spiral- think about it, in a room with a 20 year old lunatic, she's gonna be pregnant soon enough.
If all else fails, for the right price i can make him disappear :biggrin:

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OP

blackfish

i may get neg repped for this but if your sister starts gobbing of at you, without violence of course, i think you would be quite within your rights to completely and utterly go off on one and lose your temper :wink:

!!!!

Let her know shes not the boss, you are doing an important course and she needs to know that she ain't top dog anymore, dont let her walk all over you and treat you like **** Its not fair on you and not fair on your parents!

if you do decide to lose the plot with her, make sure you bring up every bit no matter how small of the problem and make sure she gets the message!

hope it works out, and you have my sympathy too!!

I think it's because she's been brought up spoiled. I mean for example; my sister screamed at my mum to go into town and get her some eyeliner and she agreed so I asked if I could have some too and I'd pay her for it she said ''oh it's o.k. it can be part of your xmas present'' fair enough. She came back and had bought my sister a designer one and me a 99p one, not like I'm bothered but it just shows. I mean I've never gave my parents trouble, did GCSEs, A levels and attempting a degree (the first person in my family to do so!) and I've always been treat less well than her. My parents and sister think I'm lazy for doing a degree and avoiding getting a job but I'm not :frown:

Thats the argument my sister uses at me everytime I confront her :frown:

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