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    You listen but they don't wanna listen back. Your words mean nothing to them. You're just... there

    EDIT: oops I really don't remember putting this in the gcse forum 😂😂
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    I don’t know who you are or where you’re from or what kind of person you really are but honey, if you realise someone doesn’t give a **** about you, it is time to take a step back. I know it can be hard because of what that person means to you but in the end you come first. Your wellbeing comes first. If someone can’t reciprocate, you’re not at fault. The world is filled with high class A-holes. Hang in there and have faith.
    Hope whatever you’re going through gets resolved! X
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    nah I don't waste time with those people lol
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    (Original post by IsaacMewton)
    I don’t know who you are or where you’re from or what kind of person you really are but honey, if you realise someone doesn’t give a **** about you, it is time to take a step back. I know it can be hard because of what that person means to you but in the end you come first. Your wellbeing comes first. If someone can’t reciprocate, you’re not at fault. The world is filled with high class A-holes. Hang in there and have faith.
    Hope whatever you’re going through gets resolved! X
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    nah I don't waste time with those people lol
    I mean like someone who's really interested in you and wouldn't interrupt you in any kind of way. Like looks at you like they wanna listen. Sometimes I feel the need to talk fast so they don't cut me off.
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    (Original post by IsaacMewton)
    I don’t know who you are or where you’re from or what kind of person you really are but honey, if you realise someone doesn’t give a **** about you, it is time to take a step back. I know it can be hard because of what that person means to you but in the end you come first. Your wellbeing comes first. If someone can’t reciprocate, you’re not at fault. The world is filled with high class A-holes. Hang in there and have faith.
    Hope whatever you’re going through gets resolved! X
    Rlly sweet btw thanksss sis x
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    I mean like someone who's really interested in you and wouldn't interrupt you in any kind of way. Like looks at you like they wanna listen. Sometimes I feel the need to talk fast so they don't cut me off.
    prob just your self esteem issues then lol.

    just say what you want and don't care about anything. It'l help if you stop caring what anyone thinks. don't even matter if they're not listening lol.
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    You listen but they don't wanna listen back. Your words mean nothing to them. You're just... there

    EDIT: oops I really don't remember putting this in the gcse forum 😂😂
    Yeah. Those people are called egotistical ********s that usually chat about shallow crap anyway.
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    Yes - on CS:GO, all the time.
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    Can someone close down this thread down pls thanks
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    My whole life story has been me listening to everyones elses problems but then having to repeat my own problems/story a million times because they selfishly didn't care enough to listen or remember what I told them about myself. Its so ****ing disheartening and actually angers me at times. I mean I like to think I'm a really good listener. Everytime someone comes to me with their problems I always listen, take in everything they are saying and then offer good advice... and I think that is why they always come to me everytime they need to talk. But in return when I try telling them my problems or just asking for a little advice or even just a chat I can tell they are not listening, I see them looking elsewhere and several damn times they just cut me off to start talking about something else. Its SOOOO damn rude. I just gave up! I'm so done with people, DONE!!!
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    Can someone close down this thread down pls thanks
    Just report your thread to be moved.
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    (Original post by MyFightSong)
    My whole life story has been me listening to everyones elses problems but then having to repeat my own problems/story a million times because they selfishly didn't care enough to listen or remember what I told them about myself. Its so ****ing disheartening and actually angers me at times. I mean I like to think I'm a really good listener. Everytime someone comes to me with their problems I always listen, take in everything they are saying and then offer good advice... and I think that is why they always come to me everytime they need to talk. But in return when I try telling them my problems or just asking for a little advice or even just a chat I can tell they are not listening, I see them looking elsewhere and several damn times they just cut me off to start talking about something else. Its SOOOO damn rude. I just gave up! I'm so done with people, DONE!!!
    I have never related to anything more in my life.
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    I have never related to anything more in my life.
    I literally thought I was the only one on the planet, at least somebody understands my pain now :cry2::hugs:
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    (Original post by MyFightSong)
    I literally thought I was the only one on the planet, at least somebody understands my pain now :cry2::hugs:
    Haha me too! :hugs:You sound like me when you said that like holy crap. It's just so rude because I'd never do that to them like this is why I take stuff so personal..
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    Haha me too! :hugs:You sound like me when you said that like holy crap. It's just so rude because I'd never do that to them like this is why I take stuff so personal..
    plus they are friends too. friends are supposed to be there for each other but my friends turn away or change the subject even if i just spent a whole 2 hours listening to them talk about themselves

    as much as I hated Carrie from satc, the only time I related with her was during this scene
    https://youtu.be/js0gfIfWpVo?t=1m7s

    which is ironic because carrie is usually the selfish one who makes everything about her haha
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    (Original post by MyFightSong)
    plus they are friends too. friends are supposed to be there for each other but my friends turn away or change the subject even if i just spent a whole 2 hours listening to them talk about themselves

    as much as I hated Carrie from satc, the only time I related with her was during this scene
    https://youtu.be/js0gfIfWpVo?t=1m7s

    which is ironic because carrie is usually the selfish one who makes everything about her haha
    Exactly!!!! You know when you said that you are a good listener so am I but the main reason why people say that is because we never get a chance to talk. It's not even always about your problems but good things or just normal things. Like LOOK at me and give me attention when I'm talking. Listening to someone can just boost their confidence and it's no wonder why I lack confidence .

    Such a great scene and do you see after she expressed her feelings then she actually listens to her? Wow
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    I have never related to anything more in my life.
    Em, being awake at this kinda hour makes you think deep
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    Me no can sleep
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    (Original post by Emerald777O)
    Exactly!!!! You know when you said that you are a good listener so am I but the main reason why people say that is because we never get a chance to talk. It's not even always about your problems but good things or just normal things. Like LOOK at me and give me attention when I'm talking. Listening to someone can just boost their confidence and it's no wonder why I lack confidence .

    Such a great scene and do you see after she expressed her feelings then she actually listens to her? Wow
    haha yeah so true, we're great listeners because we are the only ones willing to listen to them whining forever. and then when we try talking they don't hear us so of course we must be great listeners to them!

    yeah the only time people ever listen to me is either when i have a go at them or just ignore them for a while. then all of a sudden they have to force themselves to listen. which is just sad.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    Em, being awake at this kinda hour makes you think deep
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    Em, being awake at this kinda hour makes you think deep
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    Me no can sleep
    I think this deep all the time. Lol you don't know !!
 
 
 
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