Ok so this is my first relationship and i am wondering if i still love him truly or its just normal that relationship just get dry after some times. We been dating for almost a year. In the beginning the passion and sparks was huge and i could not think of losing him. Now the feelings i once had has changed. Maybe its because he's in the army now and i only get to meet him once or twice a week so i am used to life without him around. I have no idea. But i feel that there are no more sparks like last time. I found that we have been arguing quite a lot lately and breaking up is getting closer to us everytime we argued. Now i feel as though i can live my life well without him and i feel that the feelings i once had was gone. However, i am also afraid that i will regret one day if i were to leave him. He treated me really good and thats what makes it even harder for me to mentioned the word. Sometimes i feel really bad that my feelings had faded but love can't be forced right? So i consulted my friends but my friend told me that relationship just get boring after some times and its pretty normal. However, i am not sure about this. To be honest, at first i just wanted to try how it is like to be in a relationship because i have never gotten into one. And its the first time where sometime u like, likes u back so i didn't really thought much and went into this relationship rather abruptly. After getting into this relationship i realise that we have many differences be it us or our family background. However, i also do not want to hurt him by saying it. Should i continue with this relationship or no?
...for the 2nd time this year