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    My girlfriend went to a party thr other night and was escorted home by a male friend. She told me that he hung around and wanted to talk a while outside on the street before she entered. It was during the time that they where talking that the guy kissed her a couple of times. my girlfriend told me thart she was to afraid to move and did not do anything and stayed passive bc she was scared and when he tried to kiss her a last time she turned her cheek and went in and called me sobbing and afraid about what had happened.

    Moving forward the next day i was mad bc this guy had done this to my gf without consent or anything that i get a facebook message from a friend of the guy who kissed my gf and told me basicly that she was the one who kissed him an had been flirting with him during the night.

    When i confronted my girlfriend again about this she was just being freindly with him since they knew eachother during their early school years and acted as if he was an old friend and nothing more , but that he maybe took it the wrong way. She has told me this has been the worse thing to ever happen to us and she just regrets the whole night.

    My gf has never done anything to hurt or lied to me and even when this happend she called me the second this had happend and told me what she experienced. We have been together for almost three years and i truly want to believe what she has told me but i am left with doubt.

    Can someone please help me i don't want to leave her and she has been in tears about this and tells me she loves me and this will never ever happen. Please help
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    Have you asked the guy for his side of the story?

    You need to trust your gut instinct as to whether she did it or not
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    Is she still going to remain friends with him? That's the question mate. Of yes then you need to ask yourself why. Otherwise get past it

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    The fact that she called you right after it happened is good but she could have - AND SHOULD HAVE - turned her face and stopped the guy from kissing. She was in front of her own house, if she needed help she could have asked for it or yelled ? I don't really know. I think you're in a very tricky situation and you need to see both sides. Because he's friend might also be trying to cause drama and ruin your relationship. I hope things get better.
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    (Original post by SMEGGGY)
    Is she still going to remain friends with him? That's the question mate. Of yes then you need to ask yourself why. Otherwise get past it

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    she told me that she never wants to see him and has blocked his number
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    (Original post by sandysofia)
    The fact that she called you right after it happened is good but she could have - AND SHOULD HAVE - turned her face and stopped the guy from kissing. She was in front of her own house, if she needed help she could have asked for it or yelled ? I don't really know. I think you're in a very tricky situation and you need to see both sides. Because he's friend might also be trying to cause drama and ruin your relationship. I hope things get better.
    She told me that she could not because she was too drunk and paniced that she froze on the spot
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    (Original post by AlexPiza)
    she told me that she never wants to see him and has blocked his number
    If she carries it out then I see no reason why you shouldn't try to fix things as 3 years is a waste over a kiss I'd say
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    (Original post by SMEGGGY)
    If she carries it out then I see no reason why you shouldn't try to fix things as 3 years is a waste over a kiss I'd say
    thanks for your help man, appreciate it, really
 
 
 
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