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    Hey, there was this girl who I have had a crush on for years, I am very shy so I have hardly ever spoken to her except online. She had told me that if I asked her out then she wouldn't say no, the next day she had said to a group of people that she had said yes because she couldn't say no and that she just wouldn't turn up to the date. This happened nearly 4 weeks ago and the pain is still there. I honestly thought that she was the one and that there is no one else like her and now she has said what she has said I feel pretty low about myself. Does anyone have any advice? Thanks, Tom.
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    occupy yourself and don’t think about it, it will go away
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    (Original post by oksafebye)
    occupy yourself and don’t think about it, it will go away
    Thanks. Yeah I have tried to remove her from my life basically.
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    (Original post by Tom-K)
    I have hardly ever spoken to her except online.
    I honestly thought that she was the one and that there is no one else like her.
    I mean... this doesn't look like a healthy mindset my dude.
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    (Original post by Tom-K)
    honestly thought that she was the one and that there is no one else like her.
    That's a good thing, you don't want someone like her.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    That's a good thing, you don't want someone like her.
    Is it? How come??
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    I mean... this doesn't look like a healthy mindset my dude.
    I guess it wasn't.
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    *bump*
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    It'll pass, trust me!
    Stay focused on you, getting your work done etc and the thought of her will gradually cease to exist.
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    (Original post by georgem93)
    It'll pass, trust me!
    Stay focused on you, getting your work done etc and the thought of her will gradually cease to exist.
    Thanks. I hope so...
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    I still feel some affection for her even though she broke my heart 😢
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    How long have you known her
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    (Original post by FakeNewsEditor)
    How long have you known her
    5 years.
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    (Original post by Tom-K)
    5 years.
    You've known her in real life for 5 years but u haven't spoken to her except online??
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    (Original post by FakeNewsEditor)
    You've known her in real life for 5 years but u haven't spoken to her except online??
    I have spoken to her in person but since I'm shy our conversations happened mostly online.
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    Hey, there was this girl who I have had a crush on for years, I am very shy so I have hardly ever spoken to her except online. She had told me that if I asked her out then she wouldn't say no, the next day she had said to a group of people that she had said yes because she couldn't say no and that she just wouldn't turn up to the date. This happened nearly 4 weeks ago and the pain is still there. I honestly thought that she was the one and that there is no one else like her and now she has said what she has said I feel pretty low about myself. Does anyone have any advice? Thanks, Tom
 
 
 
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