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    There's this guy I've known for two years now, and I've noticed how indifferent he is to me. By this I mean, I've tried to get close to him, as a friend, as we're partners in our computer science class, but he's so indifferent to me. Like, he doesn't care about anything, despite what I say or do. I've drawn a line where I've decided where I'm not going to talk to him anymore since I don't want to come off as being a beg, but it's so insulting to be nice and stuff, only to be treated coldly and harshly. He's like that, but then on the opposite he's really nice and we have great laughs half of the time? So what could be causing these frequent changes in behaviour, cause I literally don't know how to act in front of him anymore
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    You deserve better tbh relationship or friendship, you deserve someone who enjoys your company pretty much all of the time and doesn't continuously switch hot and cold
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    It could be something personal. I can be like this with my boyfriend. If I didn't sleep well at night or I just woke up in a bad mood I can be pretty cold to him. Ask him what's going on and if there's anything more serious happening. Maybe he just doesn't feel like talking about it.
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    Perhaps he isn't the guy who likes to get close to people or open up? He doesn't want to share but he is willing to have a laugh with you. If it poses a big problem, you could mention something to him as he may not realise how you feel.
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    I've brought it up, but he's like, why you getting so mad for? idek
 
 
 
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