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    Anonymous for obvious reasons :|

    The other day I had the chance to sleep with this guy I really like but I ruined it

    I started to act a bit annoyed and gave blunt answers when he was making movements but only because I felt veryy nervous; I've never slept with someone from his race. I thought he'd be disappointed when he saw me naked. Everyone's body is different yes, I like my body, I don't mind having curvy thighs but the girls I've seen him date previously are really slim and have straight hair (in porn guys always pull it lol) and they just look nothing like me.

    He probably thinks I'm racist now and that I don't like him, when I do because everything was fine up until that point. I want to meet up with him again and get the ball rolling but I don't know how to overlook the fact and not let it make me nervous again.
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    He's white/asian and you're black?
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    Hopefully I haven't ruined it
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    He's white/asian and you're black?
    He's white and I'm mixed race lol
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    oh my you must kinda see where I'm coming from, are you trolling?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    oh my you must kinda see where I'm coming from, are you trolling?
    Maybe, maybe not
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    He's white and I'm mixed race lol
    Black/mixed-race people can't be racist though... I really don't understand what his problem is??
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    Like with anything, the best thing to do would just be telling him the truth that you're a little shy and a little insecure. If he's truly a nice guy he should understand where you're coming from and hopefully he'll give you a second chance.

    Obviously, if he's convinced it's the race thing, do your best to change his mind. If you can't, then just apologize and move on.

    I know this is hard to do but the longer you leave it the less he'll believe your apology and you.

    Best wishes, Anna x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Black/mixed-race people can't be racist though...
    🤣🤣🤣

    The sad thing is, so many people truly believe this.
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    Look past his race then, it's not that hard.
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    I posted this already anonymously but it's taking a while to be checked and I'm worried you'll give up on TSR as nobody's being too helpful.
    Here's my advice -

    Like with anything, the best thing to do is to tell him the truth that you're shy and insecure and be as honest as you can. If he's truly a nice guy, he'll understand and give you a 2nd chance.

    Obviously, if he's convinced it's a race thing, do your best to convince him it's not but you're not sure he even thinks that, so don't worry!

    I know this is a hard thing to do but the longer you leave it, the less he'll believe you and your apology and you want to fix it as soon as possible anyway!

    Best of luck!
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    People of black origin can’t be racist as we are victims of racism. Reverse racism just doesn’t make sense in practice.
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    Just strip in front of him and let the chemistry build
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    (Original post by _dvrkchocolate)
    People of black origin can’t be racist as we are victims of racism. Reverse racism just doesn’t make sense in practice.
    Hmmmmmmmmm
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    Funny enough. I’ve been through this. I’m a black girl and I recently had a thing with a white guy. Just text him and see if he’s willing to meet up with you again.
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    Lol what
 
 
 
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