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    Hello,

    So I've been seeing this girl and on of our dates we started to kiss which lead into having sex. However at the time when we was kissing I had an erection. As soon as I put the condom on I went soft and It then turned into a very awkward situation which lead to her thinking it was her fault.

    I had to reassure her that it wasn't her and It was just me being nervous.. However this also happened with my last ex when every time I tried to put a condom on but we just did it unprotected as she was on the pill?

    Can anyone suggest or advise what I can do? Because I feel of this situation she's sort of gone off me? Has anyone else experienced this issue? I've tried loads of condoms but non work

    Any advice / suggestions would be great!
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    Hello,

    So I've been seeing this girl and on of our dates we started to kiss which lead into having sex. However at the time when we was kissing I had an erection. As soon as I put the condom on I went soft and It then turned into a very awkward situation which lead to her thinking it was her fault.

    I had to reassure her that it wasn't her and It was just me being nervous.. However this also happened with my last ex when every time I tried to put a condom on but we just did it unprotected as she was on the pill?

    Can anyone suggest or advise what I can do? Because I feel of this situation she's sort of gone off me? Has anyone else experienced this issue? I've tried loads of condoms but non work

    Any advice / suggestions would be great!
    I suppose it depends on why you go soft.

    If it’s simply putting the condom on then no idea if it’s because you can’t feel much maybe some of that stimulation gel stuff, I think it comes built into some condoms.
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