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    I've been talking to this girl around about Mid September and we've been talking since, we've been on two dates.

    First date - Dinner, a drink and then back to hers to chill & talk.
    Second Date - Hers, ordering pizza, relaxing which lead into kissing and a bit further.

    I'm full time working and she's a uni student. We talk daily but there seems to be a gap in reply's. Normally I'll reply straight away but for me to get a message back it takes about an hour and half or even longer.

    I start to get paranoid / over think as I see she is active on Facebook and posts some stuff on her wall but still await for her to see my message. I know uni students can be quite busy but sometimes I think she's lost interest?

    What can I do? Should I stop worrying because it could be nothing? Or maybe a sign she's lost interest?
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    2 dates in 6 weeks?

    Do this. Ask her out for another date and if she's still interested, she'll agree to go out with you.

    Otherwise, I wouldn't overthink it because you may end up pushing her away.
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