I've been speaking to this girl since Mid September and I'm starting to over think if she's gone off me or she's busy?
We've been on two dates
1st date - Dinner, drink back to hers & chill and talk
2nd date - At hers, pizza and talk and kissed.
We speak daily but I have to wait gaps in between for a reply at least an hour and half or even more for a reply where as I'll reply straight away.
I'm full time working and she's a uni student, I know she could always be busy but she shows as active on Facebook most of through out the day and Is posting stuff so It makes me over think thinking have I done something or why she not reading my messages and replying even tho showing as active?
Should I stop over-thinking? or is it normal because of this situation?
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Last edited by Jordan13; 02-11-2017 at 14:52.
- 02-11-2017 14:48
- 02-11-2017 14:49
Maybe she’s not good with texting. Try calling her instead
- 02-11-2017 14:51
Honestly it is highly possible that she is just taking time because shes discussing with a friend what she should say. Its something me and my friends do all the time, if we're talking to someone we like and we're not sure what to reply, we ask each other for advice. I wouldn't overthink it too much, but if it's really bothering you, then ask her where its going so you know youre not wasting your time
- 02-11-2017 14:56
Don't overthink it.
You speak daily and you've gone out on two dates. You're doing fine man