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Guy keeps asking to come over it's putting me off him watch

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    I understand I shouldn't of had sex with him so early but I just came out of an abusive relationship and was vulnerable.

    So I have known this guy since 31st August this year. I speak to him nearly everyday and I have been out with him a a lot like bars cinema restaurants clubs ext he always takes me to nice places and pays

    He has come to my house a couple times but he is trying to do the whole come over at 10pm 9pm times aka booty call
    We are not boyfriend and girlfriend and actually he has said a few times about me to not fall in love with him

    I have expressed to him in not a booty call and he always claims I'm not

    However again today he has said " so should I come over"
    Like he invites himself to my house

    I have never been to his house even though he apparently lives alone and always says I "will" come

    I'm just over this now tbh all of it just puts me off plus he has asked me for nudes twice which I have said no and he tried to convince me to do it

    How do I tell him basically one don't invite yourself to my house and that his behaviour is putting me off
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    Just tell him exactly that. "You're treating me like a booty call and I don't appreciate it. You cannot invite yourself over to my house like that and I don't want to be around you if you carry on." You have to be firm and blunt otherwise he won't get the message.
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