I understand I shouldn't of had sex with him so early but I just came out of an abusive relationship and was vulnerable.
So I have known this guy since 31st August this year. I speak to him nearly everyday and I have been out with him a a lot like bars cinema restaurants clubs ext he always takes me to nice places and pays
He has come to my house a couple times but he is trying to do the whole come over at 10pm 9pm times aka booty call
We are not boyfriend and girlfriend and actually he has said a few times about me to not fall in love with him
I have expressed to him in not a booty call and he always claims I'm not
However again today he has said " so should I come over"
Like he invites himself to my house
I have never been to his house even though he apparently lives alone and always says I "will" come
I'm just over this now tbh all of it just puts me off plus he has asked me for nudes twice which I have said no and he tried to convince me to do it
How do I tell him basically one don't invite yourself to my house and that his behaviour is putting me off
who are introverts?