Do men like nice girls?

qubog

Reading a post earlier someone said when a guy is too nice its about as attractive as AIDS :biggrin:

I wonder if this rule applies to women who are too nice? Does that turn men off? :confused:

Edit: It was 3232 who made the AIDS comment...kudos :smile:

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Reply 1

punktopia

Yes.

Reply 2

Rutter knows best!

no , the factor of them being nice has never stopped me.

if there nice to everyone , then yes maybe it would get on my nerves a little.

if there just really nice to me and not everyone else then that might even go in there favour.

Reply 3

kiddranc

Define "nice".

Reply 4

qubog

You know how women sometimes go for "bad boys" who cheat on them, flirt with other women and generally treat them like crap. Would men find that equally attractive in a woman?

"Nice" in the sense i'm talking about is a bit like the annoying girl out of the X factor, if you watched it. The girl from the duo Same Difference. Although she was ridiculously, annoyingly nice

Reply 5

DodgyTrousers

Nice is fine, I think it's harder to be genuinely nice to people than it is to be yet another cynic! The only branch of nice I don't like is when a woman is hopelessly stuck on you, and only because (as much as I know it's wrong) I take them for granted then.

Kindness is an endearing quality in a woman, for me at least. I think it feminises them even more.

Reply 6

The Solitary Reaper

Yes, very much so. I've had a girlfriend with 'attitude' and it was crap.

Reply 7

naivesincerity

I can't stand faux nice but not nice, but I like someone spiky or abrasive who really is quite sensitive.

Reply 8

China Doll

all men are different - i dnt think men that are nice is unattractive but fake nice or too nice is so i guess it does apply other way round - but surley not if ur jst a nice person

Reply 9

jobo3

I wouldn't even bother talking to someone who isn't nice, I just blank people who are t**** or 'bad'.

Reply 10

qubog

naivesincerity

I can't stand faux nice but not nice, but I like someone spiky or abrasive who really is quite sensitive.

That make me think of Miranda from Sex and the City :biggrin:

Reply 11

alex_hk90

qubog

You know how women sometimes go for "bad boys" who cheat on them, flirt with other women and generally treat them like crap. Would men find that equally attractive in a woman?

Most certainly not.

Reply 12

username47781

Well too nice as in clingy and calling all the time would be a turn off. Overall though i'd rather be with a nice girl than one who is arrogant and up herself.

Reply 13

punktopia

I pretty much assume all girls are bitchy and manipulative on some level, so I think if I found a genuinely "nice" girl it'd throw me a bit. Tbh I'd probably reject her because I'd end up corrupting her.

Reply 14

Peanut42

'Nice' as in sickeningly sweet would get annoying (being a girl I can't say if I'd find it attractive or not!) but someone who's just kind and happy can't be a bad thing. It depends on the person really, not all girls like 'bad boys' do they?

Reply 15

alex_hk90

Peanut42

I sure hope not. :wink:

Reply 16

FCabinet34x72

Basically not to difficult to tell the is going to be clingy! In general they're genuinely nice , but can be angry and hot tempered more often than not i guess dont like arrogantance!!

Reply 17

Overground

Yeah nice is good. I hate girls that are all 'Bad Attitude', 'you get what you get I am what I am', you know the type that wear t-shirts saying 'this bitch bites' or 'am i bovvered' etc. Faux-nasty is even worse than faux nice.

Reply 18

Jackathon

Sometimes. If they're really nice shy and reserved, you might still like them. But without a little encouragement, few guys are brave enough to actually go for it. Whereas with a slightly more forward girl, you know she likes you, or she atleast is interested in having a boyfriend you are more likely to even try.