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    Guys..what do u think about that when some random girl comes to you and start some random conversation or when she ask for number or any contact first? Do u like girls like that?
    And would you act different if some girl ask u in front of friends vs when u're alone? if yes, then how.
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    Yes, sometimes guys (like me) find it hard to go up to a random girl and start a conversation, so girls doing it would make it a lot more relaxing and less stressful/nerving.
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    Guys..what do u think about that when some random girl comes to you and start some random conversation or when she ask for number or any contact first? Do u like girls like that?
    And would you act different if some girl ask u in front of friends vs when u're alone? if yes, then how.
    I would like that quite a bit. I myself am not a fan of social restraints put upon today’s society by past generations. Challenging this shows favourable traits within oneself.
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    Yes, sometimes guys (like me) find it very hard to go up to random girls and start a conversation with them. So girls doing it instead shows that they have interest and make it a lot less stressful and nerving. I don't think I matters weather they're alone or with friends, but it is probably a bit more intimidating for the girl if they're with friends. I'm probably not the best person to ask how though...
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    i'm more attracted to girls who make the first move than those who don't
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    Not in front of friends because " Mans not hot"
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Guys..what do u think about that when some random girl comes to you and start some random conversation or when she ask for number or any contact first? Do u like girls like that?
    And would you act different if some girl ask u in front of friends vs when u're alone? if yes, then how.
    No. It is against the law and punishable by death.
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    Yes, sometimes guys (like me) find it very hard to go up to random girls and start a conversation with them. So girls doing it instead shows that they have interest and make it a lot less stressful and nerving. I don't think I matters weather they're alone or with friends, but it is probably a bit more intimidating for the girl if they're with friends. I'm probably not the best person to ask how though...
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    i did it with my current bf- its the 21st century of course we can
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    i did it with my current bf- its the 21st century of course we can
    Really? Do u have some tips how to start conversation or what to say?
    I never did something like this and I'm so nervous af.
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    Yes, sometimes guys (like me) find it very hard to go up to random girls and start a conversation with them. So girls doing it instead shows that they have interest and make it a lot less stressful and nerving. I don't think I matters weather they're alone or with friends, but it is probably a bit more intimidating for the girl if they're with friends. I'm probably not the best person to ask how though...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Really? Do u have some tips how to start conversation or what to say?
    I never did something like this and I'm so nervous af.
    yeah i did haha, well i knew him through friends anyway, so we all went out for dinner one day, and i slide intto the seat next to him and started chatted, and we chatted and flirted for the rest of the evening- talking comes naturally to me, i dont really know when to shut up hahaha, and after i messaged him saying it was nice to see him and we should do it again sometime, and BAM in comes date number 1!!

    youll be fine!!! i have much faith in you! you got this! i say dont overthink it and just go with the flow, and youll be jussstttt fine!!!!
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    i did it with my current bf- its the 21st century of course we can
    THANK YOU jesus christ a girl from this site who has more than 2 brain cells and can actually think for herself
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    (Original post by eden3)
    THANK YOU jesus christ a girl from this site who has more than 2 brain cells and can actually think for herself
    loooooollllll i use it to my advantage though hehehe, sometimes to win an argument id be like 'if it wasnt for me you wouldnt be here' etc- its quite fun :rofl:

    someones gotta make the first move right
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    loooooollllll i use it to my advantage though hehehe, sometimes to win an argument id be like 'if it wasnt for me you wouldnt be here' etc- its quite fun :rofl:

    someones gotta make the first move right
    LOL more power to you.

    Of course - idgaf if you're a girl or a guy, it's completely irrelevant. If you like someone you go talk to them instead of having a princess mentality like all the girls on TSR "awww why dont guys like me or ask me out or approach me" because the world doesn't revolve around you *****
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    Nah you should invest in a wheelchair
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    I would be extremely suspicious if any girl approached me in this manner, but then that's just me.
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    (Original post by eden3)
    LOL more power to you.

    Of course - idgaf if you're a girl or a guy, it's completely irrelevant. If you like someone you go talk to them instead of having a princess mentality like all the girls on TSR "awww why dont guys like me or ask me out or approach me" because the world doesn't revolve around you *****
    looool couldn't have worded it better myself!! i think people should just go for it, lifes too short
 
 
 
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