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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Guys..what do u think about that when some random girl comes to you and start some random conversation or when she ask for number or any contact first? Do u like girls like that?
    And would you act different if some girl ask u in front of friends vs when u're alone? if yes, then how.
    I love girls that take the initiative if girls approach me first then that's a bonus in my eyes. Shows confidence and lack of insecurity on their part.
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    (Original post by Black Cat)
    I love girls that take the initiative if girls approach me first then that's a bonus in my eyes. Shows confidence and lack of insecurity on their part.
    yyyeeessss!!! not alot of guys think like that, when i was on tinder, most guys where surprised that i messaged first, i was just like 'its not weird is it?!' and some were like 'oh i was gonna message anyway' yeeeahhh right smh :rofl:
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    yyyeeessss!!! not alot of guys think like that, when i was on tinder, most guys where surprised that i messaged first, i was just like 'its not weird is it?!' and some were like 'oh i was gonna message anyway' yeeeahhh right smh :rofl:
    Wish more girls would take this approach times have changed guys shouldn't have to initiate everything. Some girls do make the first move though, but they tend to do it very passively e.g. Sliding in the dms etc.
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    (Original post by Black Cat)
    Wish more girls would take this approach times have changed guys shouldn't have to initiate everything. Some girls do make the first move though, but they tend to do it very passively e.g. Sliding in the dms etc.
    ngl i just and talk to them LMAO sliding into DMs is for the youths :rofl:
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    ngl i just and talk to them LMAO sliding into DMs is for the youths :rofl:
    Tell me about it this girl slid in my dm last week and said "lool aww u yesterday" How can I respond to that? :lol:

    She saw me the night before and thought that would be a great convo starter needless to say the convo ended really quickly

    These girls man think popping up is enough haha
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    (Original post by Black Cat)
    Tell me about it this girl slid in my dm last week and said "lool aww u yesterday" How can I respond to that? :lol:

    She saw me the night before and thought that would be a great convo starter needless to say the convo ended really quickly

    These girls man think popping up is enough haha
    no way?!

    you should have been like i saw me too lmao hahaha i mean some people are soooo bad with trying to carry a convo- sometimes small talk annoys me!!

    i get that on insta- so many thirsty men smh
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    no way?!

    you should have been like i saw me too lmao hahaha i mean some people are soooo bad with trying to carry a convo- sometimes small talk annoys me!!

    i get that on insta- so many thirsty men smh
    I should've ignored her tbh the whole conversation was pointless waste of time. I found it funny how she thought that putting in minimal effort would get her anywhere.

    Haha I bet insta is full of em, enjoy
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    (Original post by Black Cat)
    I should've ignored her tbh the whole conversation was pointless waste of time. I found it funny how she thought that putting in minimal effort would get her anywhere.

    Haha I bet insta is full of em, enjoy
    Haha, that's why I'm scared of the first step. xD Bcs I really don't know this boy. And I'm not the best person for starting some conversation. Even if the person is stranger.
    What if I say something weird. lol.
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    (Original post by Black Cat)
    I should've ignored her tbh the whole conversation was pointless waste of time. I found it funny how she thought that putting in minimal effort would get her anywhere.

    Haha I bet insta is full of em, enjoy
    i mean as long as you put effort into the convo then it should flow!!

    mate after todays post i was flooded
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Haha, that's why I'm scared of the first step. xD Bcs I really don't know this boy. And I'm not the best person for starting some conversation. Even if the person is stranger.
    What if I say something weird. lol.
    Don't read into it too much just talk to him like you would to anyone else and things should flow naturally.

    We will respond trust me.

    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    i mean as long as you put effort into the convo then it should flow!!

    mate after todays post i was flooded
    Exactly, a little bit of effort can go a long way!

    That doesn't surprise haha the comments were hilarious
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    (Original post by Black Cat)
    Don't read into it too much just talk to him like you would to anyone else and things should flow naturally.

    We will respond trust me.



    Exactly, a little bit of effort can go a long way!

    That doesn't surprise haha the comments were hilarious
    the comments were literally them roasting me for the lack of clothes FML :rofl:
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    the comments were literally them roasting me for the lack of clothes FML :rofl:
    Haha I know, you do you gurl
 
 
 
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