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    Ok I know this is going to sound really shallow but WHY are guys not interested in me? I’ve found that despite trying to initiate conversation, they really seem not to care at all. Sure I’m not the prettiest girl but I honestly don’t think I’m THAT bad and I don’t THINK i have a dead personality. What am I doing wrong?
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    You’re probably putting yourself down too much, sometimes it just happens unexpectedly. Trying to force it to happen might make it worse
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    You’re probably putting yourself down too much, sometimes it just happens unexpectedly. Trying to force it to happen might make it worse
    I know, I really know I shouldn’t get worked up about it but I can’t help but at least wonder why, guys who even talk to my friends make no effort to talk to me, even on a friendship basis
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    I know, I really know I shouldn’t get worked up about it but I can’t help but at least wonder why, guys who even talk to my friends make no effort to talk to me, even on a friendship basis
    I understand, I previously went to an all girls school and now in a mixed college. It is hard but give it time. Plus if they don’t bother with you they don’t sound very nice in the first place, you are probably dodging a bullet!
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    lol you forgot to make youreslf anon



    Btw it's hard to find people you have stuff in common with anyway. I've found more interesting people in random facebook groups that add me because of my memes than in real life lmfao.
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    lol you forgot to make youreslf anon



    Btw it's hard to find people you have stuff in common with anyway. I've found more interesting people in random facebook groups that add me because of my memes than in real life lmfao.
    Im so confused, that user isn’t me haha
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    Im so confused, that user isn’t me haha
    oh haha.
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      Ok I know this is going to sound really shallow but WHY are guys not interested in me? I’ve found that despite trying to initiate conversation, they really seem not to care at all. Sure I’m not the prettiest girl but I honestly don’t think I’m THAT bad and I don’t THINK i have a dead personality. What am I doing wrong?
      How are we meant to know?

      You might be ugly, you might smell, you might have a resting b*tch face, you might look like a third-wave feminist, you might seem really shallow, or you might just be misinterpreting them.

      What are these guys like (i.e. where do you meet them), what are your friends like (are they like you, or are you only tagging along in their friend-group)?
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      (Original post by FriendlyPenguin)
      How are we meant to know?

      You might be ugly, you might smell, you might have a resting b*tch face, you might look like a third-wave feminist, you might seem really shallow, or you might just be misinterpreting them.

      What are these guys like (i.e. where do you meet them), what are your friends like (are they like you, or are you only tagging along in their friend-group)?
      loool :rofl: brutal af
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      Don't blame yourself. They could be involved with someone else or have other situations meaning they aren't looking for a relationship right now. You can't expect every guy you talk to to be single and wanting a relationship. Just brush it off. They say you have to weed through the bad ones before you find the right one.
     
     
     
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