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    I'm a girl and I want to have sex with a girl, but I'm not attracted to girls. I guess I want this because with a girl I can't get pregnant and it's easier in a way.
    I don't know what do do!!😭
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a girl and I want to have sex with a girl, but I'm not attracted to girls. I guess I want this because with a girl I can't get pregnant and it's easier in a way.
    I don't know what do do!!😭
    Life is too short to be hanging around
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    Buddy- if you want to have sex with a girl, you have to be a little bit gay.
    Don't take it the wrong way, I'm bi, being a little bit gay is fine, and you can still identify as straight if you feel it matches you better. It sounds like you're bi but like... 95% attracted to guys, or alternatively maybe something like heteroromantic bisexual (attracted romantically only to guys, but sexually to more than one sex). But with both of those you can still call yourself heterosexual. I don't know, just thought I'd give you that info in case you're questioning anything.

    As for how you would have sex with a girl but just the one time... I'm not totally sure, maybe use a dating app if you think it's safe, but be careful. And don't mess the girl about, can't just use her to do this if she thinks there's a chance it could turn into more.
    Sorry I can't help more!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a girl and I want to have sex with a girl, but I'm not attracted to girls. I guess I want this because with a girl I can't get pregnant and it's easier in a way.
    What is it you actually want to do that you couldn't do with a boy? Apart from the possible pregnancy issue, what would make it easier?

    As someone said, the critical thing is not to mislead anyone about what it is you are after: casual, one-off sex rather than looking for any sort of relationship. It will help them to know that you've not done this before too.

    If you're prepared to have someone else around while it happens, there are a lot more mf couples looking for a mff threesome than there are single women looking to have one with a random mf couple. Given that you'd be the one doing the choosing, you can negotiate having as much or as little contact with him as you like.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a girl and I want to have sex with a girl, but I'm not attracted to girls. I guess I want this because with a girl I can't get pregnant and it's easier in a way.
    I don't know what do do!!😭
    There are ways to have safer sex with a guy also.And this how things go haywire.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a girl and I want to have sex with a girl, but I'm not attracted to girls. I guess I want this because with a girl I can't get pregnant and it's easier in a way.
    I don't know what do do!!😭
    Go for it bro!
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    Being straight means you like girls doesn't it lol
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    Why put a label on things? If you want to do it, do it!
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    As long as you and the girl are both on the same page, go for it - life's too short not to experiment
 
 
 
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