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    So, I've recently started a job within my local area and I've been there for almost 6 months. When I first started the job literally everyone knew who I was due to family members working there. (I knew no one) There's one guy there who seems to just be wherever I am! (We do work in the same place mind) I've never been in a relationship and am a really shy person, especially when it come to talking to guys. I know he is a shy person too, my cousin has worked with him and has said that he's always been super shy when it comes to talking to girls... even to the point where up to 12 months ago, he couldn't talk to any female without turning bright red!I always catch him looking at me whenever I look in his general direction, sometimes he'll catch me looking and immediately look away, where as other days he'll hold a stare for a few seconds before smiling or waving... what does This mean?We talk often and it's usually him to initiate conversations, (we only really talk in work, unless we bump into one another outside of work) I feel super comfortable around him and we get along really well. He's a really nice person and I don't know if I'm confusing his personality with his feelings??One other thing that I have noticed in the corner of my eyes when waiting to clock out of work, is I'll catch him looking at me, looking away then quickly looking back... numerous times!! Whenever we're in a group conversation and he makes a joke, he seems to make eye contact towards me. I see him outside of work quite often, even if it's at the weekend where I'm popping to the shop or even walking the dog at night. Every time we see each other outside of work (which is scarily often) he'll smile, wave and come talk to me... am I overthinking this? Is he just being genuinely friendly, or could this be more?Please leave any advice on what I should do... or if you guys have experienced anything like this before... am I overthinking?
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    (Original post by Charlotte247)
    So, I've recently started a job within my local area and I've been there for almost 6 months. When I first started the job literally everyone knew who I was due to family members working there. (I knew no one) There's one guy there who seems to just be wherever I am! (We do work in the same place mind) I've never been in a relationship and am a really shy person, especially when it come to talking to guys. I know he is a shy person too, my cousin has worked with him and has said that he's always been super shy when it comes to talking to girls... even to the point where up to 12 months ago, he couldn't talk to any female without turning bright red!I always catch him looking at me whenever I look in his general direction, sometimes he'll catch me looking and immediately look away, where as other days he'll hold a stare for a few seconds before smiling or waving... what does This mean?We talk often and it's usually him to initiate conversations, (we only really talk in work, unless we bump into one another outside of work) I feel super comfortable around him and we get along really well. He's a really nice person and I don't know if I'm confusing his personality with his feelings??One other thing that I have noticed in the corner of my eyes when waiting to clock out of work, is I'll catch him looking at me, looking away then quickly looking back... numerous times!! Whenever we're in a group conversation and he makes a joke, he seems to make eye contact towards me. I see him outside of work quite often, even if it's at the weekend where I'm popping to the shop or even walking the dog at night. Every time we see each other outside of work (which is scarily often) he'll smile, wave and come talk to me... am I overthinking this? Is he just being genuinely friendly, or could this be more?Please leave any advice on what I should do... or if you guys have experienced anything like this before... am I overthinking?
    I would say he likes you, as it is hard for a shy person to come out of their shell. But do not overthink it and keep thoughts to yourself. Just continue reciprocating friendly behaviour and see where it goes
 
 
 
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