This discussion is now closed.

Check out other Related discussions

dont know how to kiss...please help!!!

Im 20 and don't do the whole dating business. However, I have recently become attracted to a guy and we have been going out for about 3 weeks. We get along really well and I like him a lot. But last week, when he tried to kiss me and I didnt kiss him back because I dont know how to! I have never kissed anyone in my life so I didnt know what to do at all! Can anyone advise me on what to do? How do I "practice?". And with all due respect, please don't say I'll know what to do when the time comes. Clearly not! LOL

Scroll to see replies

Reply 1

Helenia

Don't. Just kiss him back next time. You'll know what to do.

Mirror his body language - if he leans in, you follow. Look in his eyes, then close your eyes and just let your lips touch, then take it from there. It's really not rocket science.

Reply 2

Cexy

I doubt that anyone will be able to tell you anything helpful. You just move your lips so that it feels nice. If you're enjoying it, he probably is too. Open your mouth a bit. Use your tongue if you like. Work out what you like when he does it, and see if he likes the same thing.

Reply 3

annarchy

Go to youtube, search "how to kiss passionately" you should get a video from VideoJug as a search return.
1. Watch carefully
2. Practice on hand
3. ?????
4. PROFIT!

Reply 4

NoQualms

google it...i'm sure there are videos demonstrating this lol. Basically-his top lip should be above yours with his lower lip between your lips or vice versa...take it from there.

Reply 5

Pheonixx

there is nothing you can do, its easy to tell when someone is a first time/not confident kisser, but he wont mind, and will probability be pleased he can lead you to kiss the way he likes.

Reply 6

Rdotbk

watch movies and take notes :P

im being serious

moives best thing to learn from then practice on the bak of ur hand

Reply 7

Laevis

Where do you live? I offer practical demonstrations on a no enjoy no fee basis. PM me to see if i deliver in your area now! :biggrin:

Reply 8

Toy Soldier

**** movies. **** taking notes. These geeks don't know what they're talking about. Just go with it, instinct, innit. You'll be fine.

Reply 9

Vegitto

I can be ur practice partner, I think I can donate some time to help u learn the 'Art of Smooching'...PM me if interested :cool:

Reply 10

Ang|ophi|e

Trust me, kissing comes naturally. If you get nervous about kissing, you should tell him. Start off with pop kisses before moving on to anything more advanced. Plus practice makes perfect. :wink:

Reply 11

Vegitto

Ang|ophi|e

Trust me, kissing comes naturally. If you get nervous about kissing, you should tell him. Start off with pop kisses before moving on to anything more advanced. Plus practice makes perfect. :wink:

See I told you didn't I! :wink:

Reply 12

Ang|ophi|e

Vegitto

See I told you didn't I! :wink:

it's true though.

Reply 13

qubog

Its weird trying to give practical kissing advice over the internet. Just sort of caress his lips with your lips

Reply 14

Almighty_Foot

best advice is not to think about it too much u will just get nervous....apart from that open your mouth a little bit but not too much!! kinda suck on his lip a little

Reply 15

Rdotbk

Toy Soldier

**** movies. **** taking notes. These geeks don't know what they're talking about. Just go with it, instinct, innit. You'll be fine.

mate what geeks are you on about?

obviously dont take notes but moives help, gives you an idea

your instinct is probs a %%%%%%%% pull

Reply 16

Ang|ophi|e

anyone can kiss, it just takes the confidence to do it. :smile:

Reply 17

Strictly Business

Lmao at people telling her to watch movies and take notes... lmfao.

Seriously... just go with the flow. You'll get the hang of it. Plus, if its awkward then just let the dude know he's the first you've ever kissed and that'll give him a huge ego boost.