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    Okay so me and my boyfriend got together recently. He's started goin clubbing with his friands. I don't like clubbing but I don't mind him going. But now he's going literally every week and it's starting to worry me. I haven't really spoke to him about it bothering me as I feel like it shoudlnt bother me but it does but I don't really want to make an issue out of something not needed. He has slightly caught onto me not being the same when he goes but he jus says I gotta trust him and I leave it and don't say anything. Has anyone else been with a partner that goes clubbing or a partner that doesn't and did it cause any issues as I'm not sure whether to maybe end things before something happens?
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    One of my exes used to be paranoid about me either gigging in pubs or supping when she couldn't (in work or whatever). I dunno, there was never anything naughty going on but it did cause problems. What exactly do you think will happen?
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    Lolololol this relationship ain't lasting... we all know the the real reason why likes to go clubbing....


    I'm fitna let my brotha Kevin Hodge inform y'all...
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      tasha_tah Amina has a bf :rofl:
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      (Original post by eden3)
      Lolololol this relationship ain't lasting... we all know the the real reason why likes to go clubbing....


      I'm fitna let my brotha Kevin Hodge inform y'all...
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      He fitna get SUCKED AWFFFFFFFFFF
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      (Original post by Lychee627)
      tasha_tah Amina has a bf :rofl:
      LOOOOL ASTAGS lmao
      but seriously, if hes with you OP why let him go clubbing?:rolleyes:
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      (Original post by Kevin Hodge)
      Basically...
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      He fitna get SUCKED AWFFFFFFFFFF

      AYMEN. :rofl: that's pretty much what's gonna happen if it hasn't already :lol:
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      (Original post by eden3)
      AYMEN. :rofl: that's pretty much what's gonna happen if it hasn't already :lol:
      He fitna take a pretty young thang home and go deep inside and leave those nuts hanging out.
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        (Original post by tasha_tah)
        LOOOOL ASTAGS lmao
        but seriously, if hes with you OP why let him go clubbing?:rolleyes:
        Lmaooo haha :rofl:
        Haha ikr
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        (Original post by Lychee627)
        Lmaooo haha :rofl:
        Haha ikr
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        but omg it dont even make sense like go with him OPR DONT LET HIM GO
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        (Original post by Amina190)
        Okay so me and my boyfriend got together recently. He's started goin clubbing with his friands. I don't like clubbing but I don't mind him going. But now he's going literally every week and it's starting to worry me. I haven't really spoke to him about it bothering me as I feel like it shoudlnt bother me but it does but I don't really want to make an issue out of something not needed. He has slightly caught onto me not being the same when he goes but he jus says I gotta trust him and I leave it and don't say anything. Has anyone else been with a partner that goes clubbing or a partner that doesn't and did it cause any issues as I'm not sure whether to maybe end things before something happens?
        Just remember: the only reason why guys go clubbing is to get attention from girls. That he goes every week just sums it up I’m afraid.
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        Amina oh no bby what is u doing??
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          (Original post by shameful_burrito)
          Amina oh no bby what is u doing??
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          (Original post by Kevin Hodge)
          He fitna take a pretty young thang home and go deep inside and leave those nuts hanging out.
          can I get a CREEEAMPIIE? :rofl::toofunny::lol:
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          (Original post by tasha_tah)
          LOOOOL ASTAGS lmao
          but seriously, if hes with you OP why let him go clubbing?:rolleyes:
          what do you mean "why let him go..." It's his decision if he wants to go.

          Controlling much...
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          can I get a CREEEAMPIIE? :rofl::toofunny::lol:
          AWLL KINDZZ of CREAMPIEE 😂😂
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          (Original post by Anonymous)
          Just remember: the only reason why guys go clubbing is to get attention from girls. That he goes every week just sums it up I’m afraid.
          Hmmm I mean before we got together it was once in a while... now it's every week...
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          (Original post by Anonymous)
          what do you mean "why let him go..." It's his decision if he wants to go.

          Controlling much...
          Exactly, maybe I just gotta start trusting him more cuz not all guys are cheats I guess😂😂😂
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          (Original post by tasha_tah)
          LOOOOL ASTAGS lmao
          but seriously, if hes with you OP why let him go clubbing?:rolleyes:
          Urm cuz it's a free world, and jus cuz I don't, don't mean he can't, I don't believe in controlling relationships...
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          (Original post by gjd800)
          One of my exes used to be paranoid about me either gigging in pubs or supping when she couldn't (in work or whatever). I dunno, there was never anything naughty going on but it did cause problems. What exactly do you think will happen?
          He doesn't drink, but with a lot of other drunk people around a lot can happen😂 I dunno maybe I should stop overthinking if he's gunna cheat, he said gonna cheat 😂🙈
         
         
         
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