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    i got a girl pregnant at last days at my high school now her parents has forced her to come my home....she's currently at home though i don't love her anymore... we broke up before knowing she was pregnant for me...my parents accept her to be at home simply because they didn't want me to undergo cases at the court since the girl was still young as in below 18years...what should i do...iam ashamed even to go home during holidays
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    You got this girl pregnant and now her parents are making her live with you? How old are you? Is she still pregnant or has she had the baby? You should step up and be a father to your child. You are just as responsible as the mother.
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    (Original post by DrawTheLine)
    You got this girl pregnant and now her parents are making her live with you? How old are you? Is she still pregnant or has she had the baby? You should step up and be a father to your child. You are just as responsible as the mother.
    you didn't understood me...i dont't love her anymore because i heard she was cheating on me which was true..i have move on with my life...iam just tired of her and her parents messing up with my life...and yes i heard already has gave birth which i don't care
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    have an abortion
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    (Original post by BUXTONBRYAN)
    you didn't understood me...i dont't love her anymore because i heard she was cheating on me which was true..i have move on with my life...iam just tired of her and her parents messing up with my life...and yes i heard already has gave birth which i don't care
    You don't care about your child? It doesn't matter what the mother did to you. You have a child. How can you have that attitude towards your child?

    If you think she and her parents are messing up your life with this child, you're really mistaken. If you don't recall, you had sex with her which created this child. Therefore you have a responsibility.

    My feathers get ruffled when dads think they can just f*ck off as soon as a kid comes into it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    have an abortion
    That's irresponsible. It's the girl's choice not OP's. Whatever OP or the girl do, the unborn child is innocent.
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    (Original post by ecolier)
    That's irresponsible. It's the girl's choice not OP's. Whatever OP or the girl do, the unborn child is innocent.
    depends how long she was pregnant for and what if they both agree.to have an abortion. if she was only pregnant for like a few days or a week then why not the baby isn't exactly developed
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    What an ignorant poster. It's physically impossible to detect a viable foetus that is a few days old.

    Also obviously if she agrees (it is her and only her decision, she can ask for help choosing but at the end of the day he cannot force her if it suits him better) then she can go for it, but seeing how the OP has worded things do you not think the girl's parents have gone down this route?

    Finally, to the OP if this girl has cheated are you 100% certain the child is yours?
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    If you didn't want a kid why did you not use protection.
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