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    my bf and i have been going out for just over a month. but atm he’s always with this other girl. he says they’re best friends but last night he slept at her house. he’s always standing me up for her and never seems to want to stay with me. my friends say to leave him but i just can’t seem to. i think i love him
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    (Original post by rubyarp)
    my bf and i have been going out for just over a month. but atm he’s always with this other girl. he says they’re best friends but last night he slept at her house. he’s always standing me up for her and never seems to want to stay with me. my friends say to leave him but i just can’t seem to. i think i love him
    This sounds like a troll, but, given the benefit of doubt:

    If your friends are telling you to leave him and you trust them, then there is probably good reason. You clearly have doubts.

    Listen to your instinct and your friends advice, but you must talk to him and tell him of your concerns before you get in deeper and end up seriously hurt.
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    Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Relationships won't work if you tell strangers how you feel instead of who really matters.
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    Talk to him. Maybe he has a best friend who's a girl, it's entirely possible. Maybe he's just trying to balance his relationship with you, with his existing friendships. If you can't handle that then it's your problem not his or hers.

    On the other hand if he's got two girlfriends then tell him that's not fair on you and end it.
 
 
 
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