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    I've been on a few dates with a guy I met online
    He normally responds quickly to messages on whatsapp

    But I noticed sometimes that he will come online on whatsapp lots of times and leave my message as unread.

    I know sometimes you might be busy and not have time to respond therefore don't click to open the message (we all do this including my friends) but I worry that it's a sign he isn't interested or loosing interest

    I have a date with him this week. I'm not going to mention it or anything but just find it annoying

    Thoughts?
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    Don't take it on face value there is more to it.
    Try to meet him and then only reach to a conclusion.
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    I know that feeling when someone is online and that person isn't responding to u....
    But it might be that he was busy..
    We should never jump on conclusions so fast.
    I did it and I am still regretting it.
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    (Original post by Sonal Maharjan)
    I know that feeling when someone is online and that person isn't responding to u....
    But it might be that he was busy..
    We should never jump on conclusions so fast.
    I did it and I am still regretting it.
    Thanks yes I know that he was going out yesterday so would have been busy. And my message didn't really require a response or anything

    What happened in your situation?
    I'm seeing him this week so will see how things are in person
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks yes I know that he was going out yesterday so would have been busy. And my message didn't really require a response or anything

    What happened in your situation?
    I'm seeing him this week so will see how things are in person
    had to do a double take and read that again i thought u wrote "so will see how things are in prison" i was like hol up lemme read again xD
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    Good.. If you are feeling something then tell him so that there won't be any misunderstanding.

    In my case, we were good at first but something changed and boom! everything changed.
    He ignored my messages and only talked when he felt like talking. We haven't talked for months now. But I don't care.. I don't need someone like him. It's better to be alone that to have someone like him.
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    (Original post by Sonal Maharjan)
    Good.. If you are feeling something then tell him so that there won't be any misunderstanding.

    In my case, we were good at first but something changed and boom! everything changed.
    He ignored my messages and only talked when he felt like talking. We haven't talked for months now. But I don't care.. I don't need someone like him. It's better to be alone that to have someone like him.
    It's frustrating when that happens and people waste your time/ mess you around etc but you are right better to be alone than worrying about where you stand all the time

    I've only been on a few dates with this guy so we aren't official or anything but I do like him. I am seeing him this week which we have arranged so perhaps there isn't as much of a need to message loads if we know we are seeing each other
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    good..
    I'm happy for you.
 
 
 
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