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    Hi I am 21 and at uni and I have only ever had sex once and that was quite a while ago. It is frustrating me that I can't find anyone. I have tried joining societies to meet people which didn't really work. I tried going out to clubs more and I have only managed to get with one person in a club and even that didn't go further than a kiss. I have joined tinder and met people off there and nothing came of that. People have told me that I am attractive guy so I don;t really know why I can't meet anyone. So I am tempted to hire an escort for an hour. I don;t know if I should or not. Does anyone have any advice?
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    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
    This is a hilariously sanctimonious reply :rolleyes:
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    oh boo hoo try being 31 and still a virgin
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
    I never said I was entitled to sex it just gets depressing that after years, the furthest I've gone with a person is a kiss and even then it was only twice when practically everyone else that I know can go out once and still manage to bring someone home.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    This is a hilariously sanctimonious reply :rolleyes:
    Well I have no issue in expressing my moral superiority over anyone who would hire a prostitute
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Well I have no issue in expressing my moral superiority over anyone who would hire a prostitute
    Or simply showing your tendency to egotism and antediluvian views on life
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    (Original post by lucas9696)
    I never said I was entitled to sex it just gets depressing that after years, the furthest I've gone with a person is a kiss and even then it was only twice when practically everyone else that I know can go out once and still manage to bring someone home.
    Why would you want to “bring someone home” from a filthy nightclub? One night stands are tacky and gross. Why not just do the old fashioned thing and get to know a girl you actually like and care about and progress things from there
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    @OP don't do it, it's degenerate. You'll feel worthless.

    (Original post by del1rious)
    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
    How is he entitled to it? He'll be making a transaction not getting it for free.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Well I have no issue in expressing my moral superiority over anyone who would hire a prostitute
    What about the actual prostitutes? Are you superior to them too?
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Why would you want to “bring someone home” from a filthy nightclub? One night stands are tacky and gross. Why not just do the old fashioned thing and get to know a girl you actually like and care about and progress things from there
    Yeah I have gotten to know girls I like and nothing has ever actually came from it
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    What is it you actually want?

    How would hiring someone for an hour help with that?

    If you had a good time in that hour, how would it feel to know it's not going to be repeated with them unless you pay them again? If you didn't, how would it feel to know that you not only had a bad time, you paid a significant amount for it?
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    (Original post by Laissez‒faire)
    What about the actual prostitutes? Are you superior to them too?
    Yes.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    Or simply showing your tendency to egotism and antediluvian views on life
    Hahahaha there we go. I don’t care if you don’t consider my line of thinking progressive, I will never consider blatant acts of debauchery to be acceptable.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Hahahaha there we go. I don’t care if you don’t consider my line of thinking progressive, I will never consider blatant acts of debauchery to be acceptable.
    To be perfectly frank i could not give less of a toss what you, in your finite wisdom, deem acceptable or not. I just find it cute that you feel the need to inflict your passe views and fulminate against the OP...
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    (Original post by Napp)
    To be perfectly frank i could not give less of a toss what you, in your finite wisdom, deem acceptable or not. I just find it cute that you feel the need to inflict your passe views and fulminate against the OP...
    He asked for advice on an OPEN forum? Sorry that I gave my honest answer instead of spouting some “yeah go for it it’s empowering to the women doing it it’s just a business transaction”
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    I don't mean to be THAT person but just think about what events have to happen in a person's life to become an escort, they obviously didn't have a good upbringing, are from a bad background, were never encouraged in school and are only doing it because they are desperate for money or to fuel a drug addiction (the latter is the most common). A huge amount of them are homeless. Most of them don't even get to keep all of their money, it all goes to their pimp. Also, it's possible that you may end up using an escort who is a SLAVE who has been trafficked here, I read about one girl who was RAPED 20 times a day, do you really want to be one of the many people RAPING someone, who has been raped multiple times that day?? You wouldn't even be able to tell because they'd have to force themselves to pretend they're enjoying it or else they'll be beaten, or even killed.
    Forget the cute documentaries on Channel 4 with ppl who WANT to do it, you do that job because you are DESPERATE.
    You're literally profiting off other people's suffering which is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING, you should be ashamed.
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    (Original post by December126)
    I don't mean to be THAT person but just think about what events have to happen in a person's life to become an escort, they obviously didn't have a good upbringing, are from a bad background, were never encouraged in school and are only doing it because they are desperate for money or to fuel a drug addiction (the latter is the most common). A huge amount of them are homeless. Most of them don't even get to keep all of their money, it all goes to their pimp. Also, it's possible that you may end up using an escort who is a SLAVE who has been trafficked here, I read about one girl who was RAPED 20 times a day, do you really want to be one of the many people RAPING someone, who has been raped multiple times that day?? You wouldn't even be able to tell because they'd have to force themselves to pretend they're enjoying it or else they'll be beaten, or even killed.
    Forget the cute documentaries on Channel 4 with ppl who WANT to do it, you do that job because you are DESPERATE.
    You're literally profiting off other people's suffering which is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING, you should be ashamed.
    >rape

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    (Original post by del1rious)
    He asked for advice on an OPEN forum? Sorry that I gave my honest answer instead of spouting some “yeah go for it it’s empowering to the women doing it it’s just a business transaction” liberal bullsh*t
    You didnt give advice you launched into a petty tirade based on some medieval moral view.

    Lol, I made no comment on any empowering nonsense. Infact i never made any comment whatsoever on ones views on the matter.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    You didnt give advice you launched into a petty tirade based on some medieval moral view.

    Lol, I made no comment on any empowering nonsense. Infact i never made any comment whatsoever on ones views on the matter.
    I really don’t understand how we now live in a world where taking a dim view on men who hire prostitution are considered medieval in their way of thinking. Prostitution was actually very popular in medieval times FYI. Your attitude is quite sweet, but let’s call a f**king spade a spade and accept that men who pay women for money are morally weak and pathetic.
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