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    (Original post by del1rious)
    I really don’t understand how we now live in a world where taking a dim view on men who hire prostitution are considered medieval in their way of thinking. Prostitution was actually very popular in medieval times FYI. Your attitude is quite sweet, but let’s call a f**king spade a spade and accept that men who pay women for money are morally weak and pathetic.
    Probably because we're not all cave dwelling religious zealots like yourself?
    It's been very popular in all epochs.
    Are you being racist ? :rolleyes:
    Or, and this is just an alternative here... we can accept that 'people' like yourself who have the temerity to believe that their perverse beliefs are somehow superior are nothing but unpleasant, antiquated, small minded people who are probably just upset that no one would piss in a cup to shag let alone pay for...
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    (Original post by December126)
    I don't mean to be THAT person but just think about what events have to happen in a person's life to become an escort, they obviously didn't have a good upbringing, are from a bad background, were never encouraged in school and are only doing it because they are desperate for money or to fuel a drug addiction (the latter is the most common). A huge amount of them are homeless. Most of them don't even get to keep all of their money, it all goes to their pimp. Also, it's possible that you may end up using an escort who is a SLAVE who has been trafficked here, I read about one girl who was RAPED 20 times a day, do you really want to be one of the many people RAPING someone, who has been raped multiple times that day?? You wouldn't even be able to tell because they'd have to force themselves to pretend they're enjoying it or else they'll be beaten, or even killed.
    Forget the cute documentaries on Channel 4 with ppl who WANT to do it, you do that job because you are DESPERATE.
    You're literally profiting off other people's suffering which is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING, you should be ashamed.
    Thank you, someone talking some sense on this thread
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    (Original post by Napp)
    Probably because we're not all cave dwelling religious zealots like yourself?
    It's been very popular in all epochs.
    Are you being racist ? :rolleyes:
    Or, and this is just an alternative here... we can accept that 'people' like yourself who have the temerity to believe that their perverse beliefs are somehow superior are nothing but unpleasant, antiquated, small minded people who are probably just upset that no one would piss in a cup to shag let alone pay for...
    Nice try at a personal attack, but I happen to be happily married.

    Could you please explain how my views are perverse?
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Nice try at a personal attack, but I happen to be happily married.

    Could you please explain how my views are perverse?
    If you say so.

    I think i covered why they are fairly thoroughly in the prior correspondence, don't you?
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    OP although i think at the end of the day it is up to you what you want to do because you know yourself best, i don't think you should completely give up on yourself, or maybe go for it (maybe as for tips, she is a professional after all) but don't let it become a repetitive bad habit, in which you become dependant on. By the way if you mean to hire a woman for sex ( that you pay for), that's prostitution, but someone who accompanies you/non-sexual activities is an escort. There's a difference.
    In my opinion neither are wrong and no woman should be ostracised for having that profession, you never truly know a person, and in some cases although i don't aspire to do what they are doing i personally can understand what can drive them to do it, and would love to have their determination to make a life for themselves no matter what.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    If you say so.

    I think i covered why they are fairly thoroughly in the prior correspondence, don't you?
    No I don’t... you haven’t made it clear why considering paying women for sex to be morally corrupt is a perverse view? Or did you use the wrong word?
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    There's nothing wrong with escorts
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    (Original post by December126)
    I don't mean to be THAT person but just think about what events have to happen in a person's life to become an escort, they obviously didn't have a good upbringing, are from a bad background, were never encouraged in school and are only doing it because they are desperate for money or to fuel a drug addiction (the latter is the most common). A huge amount of them are homeless. Most of them don't even get to keep all of their money, it all goes to their pimp.
    Erm, you've never met an independent escort have you? No pimp, no trafficking, but something where you can earn enough to live on in a few hours a week, leaving the rest for study / whatever.

    (Original post by MozartEd)
    the way if you mean to hire a woman for sex ( that you pay for), that's prostitution, but someone who accompanies you/non-sexual activities is an escort. There's a difference.
    Escorts are prostitutes. Using the former term is just marketing (in England & Wales, anyway - countries where prostitution is illegal have to pretend what's happening isn't prostitution although it almost inevitably is...)
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    [QUOTE=unprinted;74455768]Erm, you've never met an independent escort have you? No pimp, no trafficking, but something where you can earn enough to live on in a few hours a week, leaving the rest for study / whatever.

    OK but even then you have to admit it's not exactly anyone's dream job, if they were from a real rich family I'm sure they wouldn't be doing that.
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    What do you hope to achieve from it? I mean if you physically want to know what sex feels like then it'll do but if you're just trying to make yourself feel better then you'll probably end up feeling even worse, feeling like literally the only women you can get are ones you pay. Imo.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Well I have no issue in expressing my moral superiority over anyone who would hire a prostitute
    Can you justify why it's morally incorrect? Is there anything wrong in someone paying another consenting adult for sex? Prostitutes are people trying to make a living like everyone else.
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    (Original post by December126)
    I don't mean to be THAT person but just think about what events have to happen in a person's life to become an escort, they obviously didn't have a good upbringing, are from a bad background, were never encouraged in school and are only doing it because they are desperate for money or to fuel a drug addiction (the latter is the most common). A huge amount of them are homeless. Most of them don't even get to keep all of their money, it all goes to their pimp. Also, it's possible that you may end up using an escort who is a SLAVE who has been trafficked here, I read about one girl who was RAPED 20 times a day, do you really want to be one of the many people RAPING someone, who has been raped multiple times that day?? You wouldn't even be able to tell because they'd have to force themselves to pretend they're enjoying it or else they'll be beaten, or even killed.
    Forget the cute documentaries on Channel 4 with ppl who WANT to do it, you do that job because you are DESPERATE.
    You're literally profiting off other people's suffering which is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING, you should be ashamed.
    You seem to be confusing, using an escort, with random prostitutes you meat on the street.

    An escort from a from a proper escort agency is nothing like what you describe
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
    I dont think there are many guys who'd admit they hired an escort. And when they do, I think it just means theyre very honest and open and probably better than most men who even get girls
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    (Original post by December126)
    I don't mean to be THAT person but just think about what events have to happen in a person's life to become an escort, they obviously didn't have a good upbringing, are from a bad background, were never encouraged in school and are only doing it because they are desperate for money or to fuel a drug addiction (the latter is the most common). A huge amount of them are homeless. Most of them don't even get to keep all of their money, it all goes to their pimp. Also, it's possible that you may end up using an escort who is a SLAVE who has been trafficked here, I read about one girl who was RAPED 20 times a day, do you really want to be one of the many people RAPING someone, who has been raped multiple times that day?? You wouldn't even be able to tell because they'd have to force themselves to pretend they're enjoying it or else they'll be beaten, or even killed.
    Forget the cute documentaries on Channel 4 with ppl who WANT to do it, you do that job because you are DESPERATE.
    You're literally profiting off other people's suffering which is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING, you should be ashamed.
    Yes, if you hire a prostitute that lives on the street and charges a tenner for a shag to get some crack money it'll be like that.

    However escorts are much more expensive and often live very enviable lifestyles.
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    (Original post by michellincaptain)
    Can you justify why it's morally incorrect? Is there anything wrong in someone paying another consenting adult for sex? Prostitutes are people trying to make a living like everyone else.
    Could you please tell me how you would feel is your mother or sister were a prostitute?
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    (Original post by offsetWHOOP)
    I dont think there are many guys who'd admit they hired an escort. And when they do, I think it just means theyre very honest and open and probably better than most men who even get girls
    How wonderful it is for a man to be honest about paying for sex with women who hate him
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    (Original post by lucas9696)
    I never said I was entitled to sex it just gets depressing that after years, the furthest I've gone with a person is a kiss and even then it was only twice when practically everyone else that I know can go out once and still manage to bring someone home.
    No, you are right, you did not say "I am entitled to sex", but anyone willing to buy sex is entitled to sex. Actions speak louder than words.
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    (Original post by Laissez‒faire)
    @OP don't do it, it's degenerate. You'll feel worthless.



    How is he entitled to it? He'll be making a transaction not getting it for free.
    Because he thinks with money he can buy a woman's body. Irregardless of whether she "willingly" wants to sell it.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
    At least on your 10th wedding anniversary, you know something hot might go down. Consider that?
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    (Original post by Laissez‒faire)
    >rape

    kek
    Bought consent is not consent.

    Moreover, she was explicitly talking about trafficked women. Either you are intentionally being blind, or you are hugely naive, but a large proportion of sex workers are trafficked or forced into it originally.
 
 
 
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