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    There is some right waffle on here.

    To the OP if you are having no luck then do it, try not to make a habit of it though, it will burn a hole in your pocket.

    Women who are escorts aren't below normal women, its just that they've gone down a different route, just because it doesn't fit a Stepford Wives handbook doesn't mean that they're lower in the class chain.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    Probably because we're not all cave dwelling religious zealots like yourself?
    It's been very popular in all epochs.
    Are you being racist ? :rolleyes:
    Or, and this is just an alternative here... we can accept that 'people' like yourself who have the temerity to believe that their perverse beliefs are somehow superior are nothing but unpleasant, antiquated, small minded people who are probably just upset that no one would piss in a cup to shag let alone pay for...
    I'm not religious at all nor hold conservative views. It's a simple matter of prostitution being a) exploitation and b) most women in the industry not being there willingly. Did you know that rates of PTSD among ex sex workers are on the same level of soldiers? Or that the proportion of those that were abused as children far exceeds that of any other job?

    I too used to be of the opinion that "so what, someone wants to buy and someone wants to sell, so it's all Gucci", but that view is dangerously naive, and very ignorant of the industry.
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    Erm, you've never met an independent escort have you? No pimp, no trafficking, but something where you can earn enough to live on in a few hours a week, leaving the rest for study / whatever.
    Ah the males dream delusion. The woman who just loves sex so much she decided might as well get paid for it.
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    So, let me get this straight. You are 21 and already feel like you will fall down dead if you do not have any more sex now and are therefore willing to pay someone to sleep with you? You have even gone as far as trying to hook up with strangers in total disregard of the fact that you could catch a disease?

    I am indeed a millennial. The things that trouble children these days are quite hilarious if you ask me.
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    (Original post by lucas9696)
    Hi I am 21 and at uni and I have only ever had sex once and that was quite a while ago. It is frustrating me that I can't find anyone. I have tried joining societies to meet people which didn't really work. I tried going out to clubs more and I have only managed to get with one person in a club and even that didn't go further than a kiss. I have joined tinder and met people off there and nothing came of that. People have told me that I am attractive guy so I don;t really know why I can't meet anyone. So I am tempted to hire an escort for an hour. I don;t know if I should or not. Does anyone have any advice?
    do it bust a nut
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    Ah the males dream delusion. The woman who just loves sex so much she decided might as well get paid for it.
    Hahahaha spot on
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    (Original post by lucas9696)
    Hi I am 21 and at uni and I have only ever had sex once and that was quite a while ago. It is frustrating me that I can't find anyone. I have tried joining societies to meet people which didn't really work. I tried going out to clubs more and I have only managed to get with one person in a club and even that didn't go further than a kiss. I have joined tinder and met people off there and nothing came of that. People have told me that I am attractive guy so I don;t really know why I can't meet anyone. So I am tempted to hire an escort for an hour. I don;t know if I should or not. Does anyone have any advice?
    No offence. But I can't stand guys who only think about sex. They make the worst boyfriends as all they are in the relationship for is sex and they don't want to committ and even COULD be potential rapists... eventually when they don't get any. I know this isn't the case for most guys btw.


    Sex isn't everything you know. If that's the whole point of your life at the moment, and all you think of then you need to evaluate your priorities in life.

    Why not meet girls in a normal setting without feeling that you have the right to sex. Or forget meeting girls and maybe just live your life and let this happen naturally, which it will do eventually when you meet the right person. Sex is better with a person you care about anyway and not a random person you don't know.

    How would any girl feel if she knew your true intentions. It could put her off. Maybe you have already put a few off by this. This might be why nothing has 'gone further' as you put it. Most girls, don't want to shag a guy when they first meet him. It's not like the movies.
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    OP it's probably not worth it for a few reasons. I'm a guy and can understand why you would consider doing it, but consider a few things first.

    You will be at high risk of contracting a few STI's (even with a condom) such as genital warts from skin-skin contact, herpes simplex from kissing or oral sex, amongst a couple of other things. If you catch one of these viral ones they are non-curable and will recur and regress for the rest of your life. Antivirals will reduce recurrences but not eliminate them.

    Secondly, this is only a short-term measure. The solution here is to find a partner you love and cherish. Yes, this is easier said than done, but this is the only solution here. You will likely feel worthless and a bit empty after doing the deed. So the real solution is to be patient and get yourself out there to find someone you value.

    Good luck.
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    (Original post by princess kimber)
    No offence. But I can't stand guys who only think about sex. They make the worst boyfriends as all they are in the relationship for is sex and they don't want to committ and even COULD be potential rapists... eventually when they don't get any. I know this isn't the case for most guys btw.
    Surely you're on the wind-up with this statement. :confused:
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    I'm not religious at all nor hold conservative views. It's a simple matter of prostitution being a) exploitation and b) most women in the industry not being there willingly. Did you know that rates of PTSD among ex sex workers are on the same level of soldiers? Or that the proportion of those that were abused as children far exceeds that of any other job?

    I too used to be of the opinion that "so what, someone wants to buy and someone wants to sell, so it's all Gucci", but that view is dangerously naive, and very ignorant of the industry.
    No, some prostitution is exploitation. Much the same as many lines of work for that matter.
    I think you're reversing your cause and effect there, i'm not entirely sure how something happening before the fact is relevant to its morality?
    It's all gucci?
    Oh what a load of crap. This is a free world, if someone wants to engage in debauchery then that is their look out and hardly within the remit of others to castigate them forgiven i will be damned to hell and back if they havent done morally dubious things in their life before.
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    Wow, as expected from some of the females posting here, they would practically send a lynch mob round your door if they thought you were engaging in any activity of the paid nature. So not a good idea talking to the vast majority of females about this subject.

    As I see it, it's not the oldest profession for a reason. There will always be demand and a supply for that demand. There are some top level service providers about that can help with confidence, look after the disabled and carry out a number of services that some girlfriends won't do.

    Your single, not in any relationship, if you decide to proceed just stay safe, STDs are a risk factor - Good Luck
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    (Original post by Napp)
    No, some prostitution is exploitation. Much the same as many lines of work for that matter.
    I think you're reversing your cause and effect there, i'm not entirely sure how something happening before the fact is relevant to its morality?
    It's all gucci?
    Oh what a load of crap. This is a free world, if someone wants to engage in debauchery then that is their look out and hardly within the remit of others to castigate them forgiven i will be damned to hell and back if they havent done morally dubious things in their life before.
    All prostitution is exploitation. Bought consent is not consent. And I repeat myself, but if you think other than most prostitutes are not there willingly, you aren't lying to yourself.

    So if someone wants to be eaten by someone or be killed by them, that she ok, too? We are in a free world after all.
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    All prostitution is exploitation. Bought consent is not consent. And I repeat myself, but if you think other than most prostitutes are not there willingly, you aren't lying to yourself.

    So if someone wants to be eaten by someone or be killed by them, that she ok, too? We are in a free world after all.
    Don't be such a bigot. some is, naturally, some is not and it is overly presumptuous of you to assume peoples motives.
    Are you seriously comparing a bit of rumpy-pumpy to murder and cannibalism ? That is the most hilariously idiotic equivalency i have ever heard.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    Don't be such a bigot. some is, naturally, some is not and it is overly presumptuous of you to assume peoples motives.
    Are you seriously comparing a bit of rumpy-pumpy to murder and cannibalism ? That is the most hilariously idiotic equivalency i have ever heard.
    Are you seriously degrading women to just a piece of ass for rumpy-pumpy? I'm not the one who Made that comparison, you did with your faulty logic, I just pointed it out to you.

    Ironic for you to call me a bigot. And no, this is generally the case, bought consent is not consent. Nor is it "some are some aren't" - donyour reaearch, the majority of women are not in prostitution because one day they decided "oh, what a wonderful job".
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    I also find it telling that you are incapable of actually addressing arguments and just rely on generic phrases and insults without any meaning, without any thought to logic.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Wow, as expected from some of the females posting here, they would practically send a lynch mob round your door if they thought you were engaging in any activity of the paid nature. So not a good idea talking to the vast majority of females about this subject.

    As I see it, it's not the oldest profession for a reason. There will always be demand and a supply for that demand. There are some top level service providers about that can help with confidence, look after the disabled and carry out a number of services that some girlfriends won't do.

    Your single, not in any relationship, if you decide to proceed just stay safe, STDs are a risk factor - Good Luck
    I'm male. And you're nothing more than a pathetic excuse of a human being if you think buying other humans body is just "free world".

    And I love how you clarify that one shouldn't listen to the "vast majority of women" when talking about a women's issue. Classic.
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    Are you seriously degrading women to just a piece of ass for rumpy-pumpy? I'm not the one who Made that comparison, you did with your faulty logic, I just pointed it out to you.

    Ironic for you to call me a bigot. And no, this is generally the case, bought consent is not consent. Nor is it "some are some aren't" - donyour reaearch, the majority of women are not in prostitution because one day they decided "oh, what a wonderful job".
    Oh real mature, bring out the old sexism spiel :rolleyes:
    No, you're the one who made a ridiculously fallacious comparison between paying for sex - which has been a perfectly acceptable staple of human behavior for millennia, to eating people and wanton murder - neither of which have been acceptable in any form. You also seem to be confusing escorting and prostitution, there is a rather glaring difference.
    Not especially.
    You literally just said some aren't covered under your rather cute generalization... lol.

    I think this simply boils down to your own prejudice on the matter which is amusing as im inclined to believe you've never met nor spoken to an escort and thus, in ones opinion, are incapable of actually speaking for them but in rather hoary generalizations which you have yet to back up.

    I beg your pardon?I have addressed all of your points, you're the one lacking evidence. And I have yet to insult you, calling you a bigot hardly meets the definition of an insult, it is an apt description of you and your prejudiced views,
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Hahahaha spot on
    I find your moral clarity refreshing. Shame about the degenerates who think exploiting women and encouraging this indignified act is less important than their shallow attempts at philosophy.
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    (Original post by Napp)
    Oh real mature, bring out the old sexism spiel :rolleyes:
    No, you're the one who made a ridiculously fallacious comparison between paying for sex - which has been a perfectly acceptable staple of human behavior for millennia, to eating people and wanton murder - neither of which have been acceptable in any form. You also seem to be confusing escorting and prostitution, there is a rather glaring difference.
    Not especially.
    You literally just said some aren't covered under your rather cute generalization... lol.

    I think this simply boils down to your own prejudice on the matter which is amusing as im inclined to believe you've never met nor spoken to an escort and thus, in ones opinion, are incapable of actually speaking for them but in rather hoary generalizations which you have yet to back up.

    I beg your pardon?I have addressed all of your points, you're the one lacking evidence. And I have yet to insult you, calling you a bigot hardly meets the definition of an insult, it is an apt description of you and your prejudiced views,
    Please take some writing classes it is EXTREMELY difficult to discern what point you are actually trying to make
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    (Original post by Buda951)
    I find your moral clarity refreshing. Shame about the degenerates who think exploiting women and encouraging this indignified act is less important than their shallow attempts at philosophy.
    Thank you
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