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    (Original post by yudothis)
    Yes. The money. Not him.

    You are essentially saying you are happy for women's body (and men's for that matter) to be commercialized. And not even just the image of the body but the body itself.
    How do you give consent to an inanimate object? You're sounding utterly stupid here.

    That's a different issue. I don't morally agree with prostitution but using one is definitely not raping her lol
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    Honestly, I think it's fine to hire a prostitute. It's just like any other job - you pay someone money and they give you a service. No issue.
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    You're gonna get mixed reviews on the morality as you've probably noticed, so let's look at practicality.

    CONS
    1) Escorts for an hour are pretty expensive unless you're planning on popping down some super dodgy back alleys

    2) Seeing as it's just a bit of sex and you're not losing your virginity to this particular escort, the potential gains for the long term are limited. You'll still be in the same rut after you've hired her, and some girls might be turned off if they find out you were desperate enough to hire an escort once. There's a small chance it might somehow help your self confidence in this field, but it could equally do the exact opposite

    3) There's stories of folk hiring one then getting quite addicted to just hiring out gals rather than trying to get anything sans money. If that happens, it's gonna get expensive and possibly be a little bit soul destroying.

    PROS AND CONCLUSION
    On the plus side, you'll get some sex. Probably good sex with somebody rather attractive, so long as you hire right. So decide how much that's worth to you then do the cost benefit analysis yourself. If I was in your place, I personally wouldn't bother.
    (Original post by yudothis)
    Yes. The money. Not him.

    You are essentially saying you are happy for women's body (and men's for that matter) to be commercialized. And not even just the image of the body but the body itself.
    If the woman is an independent escort that's commercialising herself, is that act by her not a form of tacit consent in itself? In the end when you're an escort you're well within your rights to turn a bloke and his money down and get him to sling his hook, but they tend not to bother.
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    Yudothis

    I can tell that you are very highly strung regarding this subject matter, you have a specific view point that borders on insulting in some of your replies.

    i don't doubt that you have come into contact with some bad experiences however, there is another side to this and I really suggest that you visit your local Spearmint Rhino club and afterwards ask yourself who is exploiting who? I have seen men lose £1,000 a night in those clubs. The women love the power, are expert in manipulation and know exactly what they are doing.

    One girl I know who works on the counter at NatWest bank mon-Friday, works two nights at Rhino, Thursday and Saturday and clears c £2,500 net cash per week some of which she declares as a self employed dancer. Frankly, if I had her body I would do the same!!

    Yes, you can stand on your moral high ground and say it's disgusting men paying for adult services and Yes without doubt a high level of regulation being introduced in the UK would be a brilliant move. The adult industry will not disappear overnight, you might not like this fact but women would not offer the service if men didn't want to buy and I would be first to vote for proper regulation rather than how it is now. Equally, there are also male escort services for girls so it's not all men doing the buying.

    If the OP wants to buy this kind of service, or take a weekend to Amsterdam to enjoy the sights that's really his business - not all adult workers are at the bottom of the chain, chasing blow jobs for £10 a go to fuel a drug habit - some are driving serious incomes through lap dancing, escorting and other services and know exactly what they are into.
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    (Original post by Four Queue)
    After all the moral high ground you took aswell, couldn't make it up. :rofl:
    I still maintain the moral high ground. I don’t want to pay someone for sex and I don’t aspire to have one night stands or envy my friends for doing so. In all honestly I probably wouldn’t be friends with people who did.
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    (Original post by Laissez‒faire)
    How do you give consent to an inanimate object? You're sounding utterly stupid here.

    That's a different issue. I don't morally agree with prostitution but using one is definitely not raping her lol
    Rather funny calling someone whose argument you don't understand, stupid.
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    I'm male.


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    you seriously sound like an agitated feminist whenever i've seen you post, I'm having a hard time believing you're male.

    It wouldn't surprise me if mods revealed "youdothis" was an alt account and your main account was some other well known feminist on here

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    (Original post by yudothis)
    Rather funny calling someone whose argument you don't understand, stupid.
    It's literally what you said, and now don't address it :nope:
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    (Original post by Rachel949)
    I do agree with you, however, even if you are in a 'long term relationship' and will go on to another 'long term relationship' after this one doesn't work out, it is still kind of gross. Once you have had a few relationships you will feel just as used as if you'd had a bunch of one night stands. Even if you only have one long term relationship that lasts years you will feel pretty used if he doesn't want to marry you when you want to get married. Choose wisely now and take a second look at some of the 'average guys'. The ones you are into may not be as into you as you think.
    It is gross to get with an escort and I second your revulsion, however, guys are not evil for having a strong sex drive. It is way stronger than girls' and they have to deal with it all the time with no relief. Imagine trying to diet whilst having chocolate cake waved in your face and your friends eating all around you all the time. Plenty of girls fail that challenge but deride boys who struggle with no relief from the sex drive. I don't think escorts are the answer, I think marrying young is. That is not going to happen any time soon so it leaves many young men in a really difficult place. Disclaimer - I am probably twenty years older than you.
    I married at 21 to someone I am very much in love with. I wouldn’t have looked twice at him if he was using escorts.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    If I found out that a guy was pathetic enough to hire an escort I would stay away from them for good. I don’t know why any self respecting person would even contemplate this. More to the point, why do you think you are entitled to sex?
    this is hilarious
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    Try to respect yourself more. You don’t need to hire an escort as you will have sex when your ready to have it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Honestly, I think it's fine to hire a prostitute. It's just like any other job - you pay someone money and they give you a service. No issue.
    come out of anon and say this with your chest pls lol.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    I married at 21 to someone I am very much in love with. I wouldn’t have looked twice at him if he was using escorts.
    Rich coming from someone who's had a ons
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    (Original post by Laissez‒faire)
    Rich coming from someone who's had a ons
    I fail to see how? By the time I got married I already saw it as disgusting behaviour. I wouldn’t have married someone doing it either
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    I fail to see how? By the time I got married I already saw it as disgusting behaviour. I wouldn’t have married someone doing it either
    Maybe by the time your husband got married he saw getting escorts as disgusting behaviour too?
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Please take some writing classes it is EXTREMELY difficult to discern what point you are actually trying to make
    Are you still talking? Why don't you do everyone and pipe down.
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    I'm 21, reasonably popular and still a virgin. The right time will come. Try using dating websites such as Match.com.
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    [QUOTE=del1rious;74464698]I married at 21 to someone I am very much
    in love with. I wouldn’t have looked twice at him if he was using escorts.[/Q
    UOTE] I agree with you about using escorts and your morals as expressed in your posts, Knee jerk scorn doesn't help a guy struggling with temptation though.
    Good for you on your marriage. All the best
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    (Original post by yudothis)
    What does maturity have to do with it. Men who think they are entitled to a woman's body by paying for it, are misogynists.
    Lol remind me how anyone thinks they're entitled?

    No, you did, your logic was "we live in a free world, people can do what they want". I simply showed you the implication of that statement.
    No you made a facetious straw man arguement, nothing more.

    [quote]You seem to be under some illusion that escorting is some sort of glorious profession and women just dream of having a career as an escort. You completely fell for the marketing gag of calling escorts escorts as if they aren't whores.[/quote
    Sigh, its rather cute that you have to resort to making up utter lies to try and further your antediluvian point.
    I'm also reffering to the legal difference, I wasn't aware of a 'marketing' difference

    I have spoken to escorts, have you spoken to some that you haven't paid? So many assumptions you are making here. I'm not prejudiced either, if anything I'm simply not as ignorant as you are. I suggest you research this topic and come back to me when you are comfortable with the levels of ptsd otherwise found in soldiers and the high proportion of women who were abused as children in the industry.
    oh im sure you have...
    Lol, your arguement is so shite you have to insinuate i use hookers? Cute :rolleyes:
    I make no comment on any mental disturbances suffered by anyone as its completely immaterial to the point.

    You're a joke aren't you, in the same post you accuse me of not having evidence and yet state you're opinions without evidence as fact.
    Awww bless you :') I never propositioned anything as fact, I merely raise reasonable doubt when you generalise all prostitutes as sex slaves and mentally harmed. Basic math says you're talking out of your arseim afraid.

    Yes you have, you repeatedly failed to engage logically with my arguments instead just regurgitate "you must be biased and prejudiced hence you're a bigot". And that's not the only thing you said, without any sort of rationale you dismissed my point from above about we can do what we want as idiotic.
    I take it you have an issue with reading then?
    I dismissed your arguement as utterly moronic because it is based in prejudice and sanctimonious crap as opposed to basic facts.

    You're entire argument is "it's been done in the past and it's a free world". I've already shown you how stupid the latter is and I think even you can admit how stupid the former is, if not in happy to tell you.
    No that was one line :rolleyes: My argument is that you're being a bigoted pin head judging what you know not about.
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    I fail to see how? By the time I got married I already saw it as disgusting behaviour. I wouldn’t have married someone doing it either
    Hardly the point, you engaged in morally bankrupt behavior... rank hypocrisy at its finest *at least the escorts get paid for their time :rolleyes:
 
 
 
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