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    Not that you'd act on it but you'd definitely fantasise about it. Is it only slightly worse than fancying a celebrity? Does this make you a bad boyfriend or is it a common thing?
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    at the end of the day you we are only human and we are oppressed by society to not act upon our instinctual desires.
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    As long as you don't act upon it or you only keep that info to yourself, it's no biggy. Like the other guy said, we are only Humans and how we feel cannot be controlled by us.
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    I dont think so. It doesn't seem like it will end well at all
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    Do you mean you actually fancy her or just think she is pretty? If it is the former, it is a little awkward as she is in your social circle. However, if you love your girlfriend and don't act upon it, you haven't done anything wrong.
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    Do you mean you actually fancy her or just think she is pretty? If it is the former, it is a little awkward as she is in your social circle. However, if you love your girlfriend and don't act upon it, you haven't done anything wrong.
    She's a 10/10 and has a nice personality. So it's more than just thinking she's pretty, I think maybe it's also because I know she is out of bounds? And because if she's my girlfriend's best friend she must be special. Like I said I would never act on anything, it's more of a fantasy. But are these warning signs or just normal. Obviously nothing beats the connection I have with my gf though.
 
 
 
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