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    So my sorta ex will every now and then get back in touch, usually at 4 in the morning when he’s drunk, it’s never anything big..just a Snapchat, one said ‘need help’ it’s not all the time but it’s enough to get me thinking about him again. I still have feelings which makes it harder for me. We ended like 3 years ago and I’ve not been in a serious relationship since.

    I don’t reply because he has a girlfriend, what is his game? I’m so confused or am I overthinking it?
    Please, advice needed!
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    So my sorta ex will every now and then get back in touch, usually at 4 in the morning when he’s drunk, it’s never anything big..just a Snapchat, one said ‘need help’ it’s not all the time but it’s enough to get me thinking about him again. I still have feelings which makes it harder for me. We ended like 3 years ago and I’ve not been in a serious relationship since.

    I don’t reply because he has a girlfriend, what is his game? I’m so confused or am I overthinking it?
    Please, advice needed!
    Why not just cut him off? It's been 3 years and you still have feelings, do you not think that's been long enough?

    Secondly, what do you mean by "sorta ex", were you never official?

    Unless he's sexting you or flirting (which isn't the case here), I don't see what the issue is. Don't get involved and potentially ruin the relationship by intervening.
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    if my boyfriend was sending messages to his ex about wanting help, i would want to know.
 
 
 
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