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Miss a girl i used to talk to? watch

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    I used to talk to this girl (the last time we talked was in summer 2015) we didnt go out, we were really really close and we just faded after a while

    The reason why i miss her is because i had a massive heart valve operation back in april 2015 and she was the only person to talk to me all the way through it (except from my family of course) she was so nice, supportive and generally lovely. I remember texting her non stop after my surgery while i was in intensive care, and i really dont know how i wouldve got through it without her.

    After my op i fell into a deep depression, i didnt talk to anybody and we havent talked since, and i regret it so much..even though it was a long time ago.

    I feel like contacting her again but i dont want to feel like a 'user' or a desperate person..idk..she probably has forgotten about me. Is there really a point anymore?

    I'm 17, shes 19

    Did you post this the other day? if not, I'm having a weird deja vu moment.

    It is easy to get attached when someone helps you in a time of need. Don't really have any advice, only you'd know if it'd be appropriate to message her.
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