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    i feel like all my friendss have left me. because yesterday, these boys were backchatting about me and i even heard them so i told them on instagram that if they have anythin to say then say it to my face, they all said i was assuming and just wanted attention but actually i got hurt and everyone is ignoring me in classes and i feel like i did something wrong but i didnt, all i did was stick up for myself for the first time and is that meant to be a bad thing? please what shall i do?
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    i feel like all my friendss have left me. because yesterday, these boys were backchatting about me and i even heard them so i told them on instagram that if they have anythin to say then say it to my face, they all said i was assuming and just wanted attention but actually i got hurt and everyone is ignoring me in classes and i feel like i did something wrong but i didnt, all i did was stick up for myself for the first time and is that meant to be a bad thing? please what shall i do?
    Without knowing the background circumstances, it's best to ignore gossip, even though it makes you feel crap.

    The people who do this are immature and will feed off your reaction. So don't give them that power over you.

    Hold you head high, try to ignore it. Refrain from engaging in tit-for-tat squabbles and stick with your closest friends who you trust.
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    " i even heard them so i told them on instagram that if they have anythin to say then say it to my face"

    Irony..
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    I am a cactus.
    HEADBUTT THEM!!!!!
 
 
 
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