Okay so I’m in a relationship, but I honestly don’t see it lasting by the time they go next year to uni never mind when I do in two years, because we have completely different aspirations in life. They’re much more chilled out whereas I have a clear goal. She wants to live in the moment with our relationship and I cannot do that and it’s making me doubt whether I should be with her. The problem lies in that we have the same social group, and she’s so obsessive that last time when we broke up (after 2-3 months) she was upset for about 3-4 months afterwards, and we’ve been together since September this time round. She irritates me with how obsessive she is and although I care about her I just don’t know whether I should be with her.
So, I wanted to know a) whether anyone had a relationship from 6th form to uni and how that worked or didn’t work, and b) how to deal with an obsessive partner without feeling like the bad guy.
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