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I wish I hadn't done an ERASMUS year, how to be positive ? watch

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    For me it was optional and of course it seemed like a great way to increase my career prospects and to go on an adventure.

    I was getting a little bored of things at uni in the UK and thought it would be exciting.

    But the reality is it sucks.

    My friends are all in the UK having a great time and I'm abroad with a lot less friends, and the friends I do have probably wouldn't be people I'd be friends with if I was in the uK

    Sure it's an exciting place I'm in, whenever I tell people where I'm living they are dead impressed, but they've only ever been there on a holiday and it's totally different living there.

    I don't need a year to see all the sites.

    I know I shouldnt be so negative but it's two months in and all I can feel is that I've made the worst decision of my life.

    Any advice on how to be more positive?

    see this as a temporary life change! don't get too bent up about what everyone is doing here! social media sucks for the fear of missing out, go out and get some sweet instagram pics and everything here will think you're having the time of your life too.. !

    you say you have friends there, make the most of them, even if they're not you're usually, who cares if you never speak when you get back, they're valuable resources there for you to do things with!

    are there any local clubs? sports? that you could join?

    take it as time to focus on your studies? and practice your language skills?
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