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    So basically me and this girl have been vibing really well, until a couple days ago we would stay up till late in the night just chattin, both expressed that we felt something for the other, and we'd got pretty intimate. I definitely caught feelings for her, and it seemed like we were on the way to getting into something a bit deeper.

    But she went away for a few days and then came back after having a chance to think and said that she wasn't ready to get into a relationship right now as she was still getting over her last relationship which had ended fairly recently.

    I tell her it's cool and that, and that basically just don't want **** to get weird cuz it's true, I like her as a person and don't wanna not be friends because **** gets complicated. And I respect that she isn't in the right place rn.

    What I'm wonderin tho is if I should stay thinking this way about her, in that I have feelings for her and I know that she does for me, or should I take a hint and just try get over it and move on? The words right now are being thrown around a lot and its got me wondering if anything could happen later on.

    well if things are going to happen later on there comes a stage where genuine openness, intimacy and vulnerability/taking risk (interrelated) has to show itself to each other and not be one sided.

    It’s painful - cry your eyes out til morning - stuff if not reciprocated though. Lots of fun.

    Only you know the degree to which you’ll risk.
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