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    (Original post by magicbeans1212)
    Erm who the hell is racist? It is complex and you just assume it's a general thing
    Ignore him tbh
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    I see loads of asian girls with non asians
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    They are very few white Muslims. Vast majority of Muslims in the UK are Asian so obviously they'd be more likely to marry another Asian Muslim
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    (Original post by Chaz254)
    What CAN you do in Islam? Seems like you can't do much.
    What do you KNOW about Islam?
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    (Original post by Chaz254)
    Muslims do this far more and are much more strict than all other races/religions. If a Muslim girl dates a white boy or even a girl of any race, she would probably be treated like **** and maybe disowned. Other races/religious families (white etc.) aren't batshit crazy like that.
    (Original post by Chaz254)
    What CAN you do in Islam? Seems like you can't do much.
    big man ting. Mans trying hard to look cool and try to diss Islam but infact knows nothing about it. fam stop trying hard because you are making an arse of yourself
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    Culture thing.. My parents and wider family are closed minded...
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    1) Coz we dont wanna have our hearts broken and have all of their family ready to kill them
    2) I guess culture and people's outlook on other religions scares or just annoys the fact that they are breaking the trend... My family said i have 2 marry somebody of my race... sad times.
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    Ok. I read all comments so far and I wanna point out the following:

    1. Dating isn't allowed in any way in religion
    2. I'm a Bangladeshi, and my parents wouldn't like to see me be in a relationship/marry a Pakistani or an Arab XD. So you can see where I'm going.
    3. For NON-MUSLIMS....., Let me give you an idea when you see a Muslim dating another Muslim or a non Muslim.

    Catholic is a sect or Christianity, Protestant being another one. Similarly in Islam, we will see there's sect involved if you haven't realised. Sunni(strict, the Catholic version of Islam basically) and Shia(the Protestant version of Islam), I know for a fact that Shia Muslims allow dating similar to Protestant Christians. So I can conclude that Shia Islam is a less strict version of Islam, which we barely see anyone following.... just cos it's not strict enough and more weird jazz.
    But like some non-strict Catholics, we will see Sunni Muslims forcinicate and date other people, even if they are from very strict Muslim families.

    So there's nothing else for me to say.
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    (Original post by Nerry)
    Mummy and daddy won't let them.
    What do you mean ?
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    (Original post by Aj_lee)
    What do you mean ?
    Dating is strictly prohibited in conservative Islam (although some newer forms of more open Islam allow for very restrictive dating), it's considered promiscuous behaviour as men and women should not come into contact without being close family (including in-laws and spouse of course) or in times of necessity. I'm personally not against it (then again I'm an agnostic now) but my Muslim friends kind of are. A lot of them have never had contact with non-Muslim girls outside of school (and maybe a few get togethers with friends) so their view of them is very narrow and they lack any sort of common interests so even if they did care to try they'd fail spectacularly. Meanwhile, Muslim girls have similar restrictions (if not worse) and so they can relate - therefore leading to a connection that may span into something else. Plus if a Muslim boy dates a Muslim girl, they have a chance to actually perpetuate their relationship through a marriage (obviously "arranged" through their family).

    TL;DR - Dating isn't allowed, Muslim boys don't have any experience and so can't pull and neither can the girls. This creates a connection and they bond and get frisky together.
 
 
 
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