I like this guy, he amazing, completely not infatuation, He is beautiful to me on the inside and the out. He's a Gemini guy though and Im a Cancerian girl. I've known him since I was 14 and he was 16, hes 18 now, and im 16. I know age is a big deal to him but since ive turned 16 he's started considering me. I'm unsure what to do, I like him, and we've talked about it and I can tell he gets avibe off me too, just being the Gemini guy he is he wants to go with the flow, Ive just come off of social media because I felt I need to better myself and he is in first year uni, he should have space to meet other girls. My question is, is the gap too big? I have friends my age talking to 20 year olds, which is a bit much, but Ive known him since he was 16, and we've kind of grown with the gap, but is there like no hope? and was it a wise move to come off of social media to better myself, and give him space? Do you think think the gap will make up grow apart?
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Im 16 year 12, he's 18 first year uni is it too much? watch
- Thread Starter
- 10-11-2017 19:37
- 10-11-2017 19:41
No it’s not. Once you go to uni as well the age difference won’t even get noticed. And it’s fine now too.
- 10-11-2017 19:42
You're both above the age of consent, so it really depends how you both feel about it. Are you mature enough for an LDR with someone at a different stage of their life? Two school years is not a big difference, really.
Don't feel you need to better yourself to impress someone though. Do it for yourself because if I'm being honest, you probably won't see each other in that way in a couple of years time. And your next few years will be a big platform for adult life. No guy is worth the rest of your life.
- Community Assistant
- 10-11-2017 19:43
What does your star sign have to do with any of this? Just see where it goes. Talk to each other about what you want from each other.
- 10-11-2017 19:46
Tbh, what does a university student want with a 16 year old girl? The main focus should be uni (however, not everyone has my mindset). It does seem awfully strange. I do think gap will make you grown apart.
- 10-11-2017 19:46
- 10-11-2017 20:29
No, 2 years isn’t even that huge of a gap
- 10-11-2017 20:32
I slept with someone ten years older when i was 16 go ahead girl